#floralqueer

10 - Who do you wish you’d treated differently?

ive already answered that one but i could try thinking of something else! Possibly some members of my family? When I realised I was trans, my parents forbade me to tell anyone else in the family, and as a result, I avoided seeing my grandparents, uncles, aunt, and cousins; because getting misgendered all the time and not being able to tell them was too painful. I already didn’t have as close a relationship with my oldest cousin (she’s now 14) as I wish I did, because despite them living very close, we never went to visit bc my aunt works w my parents so they see each other all day long and dont wanna spend time together outside of work, which sort of sucks. Now I’ve moved to a different country and I have no idea how I’m gonna mend that relationship in the future, i feel like i missed out on being part of her childhood. As for my grandparents, well, it’s pretty obvious, they’re old people, their time is limited, and I wish I’d spent more time with them while I could, even if it wouldve meant telling them i was trans against my parents’ wishes (which I ended up doing, but only after I moved to Scotland, so I never really got to spend a lot of time with them as their grandson). 

46 - Have you ever taken a fall for someone?

I know for a fact I have, but I just can’t recall a specific example? probably a few times for my brother (even tho he’d never have done the same for me), probably also a few times for friends but i just??? cant think of anything. 

57 - Have you ever betrayed someone who trusted you?

definitely, but once again, cant recall something specific? nothing major tho as far as im aware, i dont think? 

Ashley Mardell, Stef Sanjati, tyrannosauruslexxx, Savannah Brown, Rikki Poynter, Kat Blaque! <3

What is your name / what Q may know you by: Nel, my url is floralqueer :)

How you and Q met: We met because Quin was homeless in the Vancouver area for a few days, and was looking for a place to stay. They asked on tumblr and though i couldn’t offer an accessible place to stay, they slept in china creek south park and in the morning I met up with them. they sat at the top of the hill so they could use my wifi and we chatted for a little while. I talked with them a little bit on tumblr after, they had made a post about wanting to have a nice christmas this year and i told them i’d make them a patch, and they asked for “ ummm a patch would be really cool actually. maybe one that says “fleurboi” on it? that was my sister’s nickname for me, it’d be cool to have it on a patch. in… hm. buttercup yellow since that was her favourite colour.” ((i’m still going to make that friendo!))

Say a little about yourself, prominent traits, interests, etc.: I’m seventeen, I’m very queer, I like dying my hair and writing poetry. I live in East Vancouver.

(2) ..but no CT scan, no recommendation to see a chiropractor. years later i learned that my hips were out of alignment, making one leg longer than the other and pressuring the L-5 vertebrae until i got a stress fracture. thank u growing pains

Doctors should learn that children are fully developed beings who know when there’s something wrong with them.

As far back as I can remember, my ankle would hurt as a kid. Like me crying on my bed because my ankle would hurt. Limping when I walked ‘cause my ankle would hurt. There was nothing that could be a cause of something like it, and I had so many medical problems that an ankle randomly hurting wasn’t a big deal. At around 19 I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. When I looked up a list of symptoms, out of the 80 I had more than half for all my life. I thought they were normal.

Push off a cliff: Jasper. I love her, but she’s the obvious choice here. As long as she doesn’t hit her nose/gem off anything she could handle it…. she’d be mega pissed but whatev.

Kiss: Pearl.

Marry: Amethyst. 

Set on fire: Ruby. She is an eternal flame. She could handle it.

Wrap a blanket around: Connie. I love Connie so much.