★ FLIRT — OVERVIEW;
— Flirt is the personification of an unstable future. He doesn't carry the weight of past decisions like Tagger, nor the need to understand everything like Evelyn. He lives in the present, reacts to his environment, and creates intense, But fragile, bonds.
In the story, Flirt exists to show that surviving doesn't mean remembering, and that growing sometimes requires letting go of important parts of oneself. He is not weak for forgetting. He is functional despite that.
His role is not to resolve conflicts, but to expose their consequences.
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★ FLIRT/FLERTE (CHILD) — ESFP-T; “The Boy Who Observes and Imitates”
— Age: 6–7 years
— General state: curious, emotionally open, dependent on the adults around him
— Narrative symbol: childhood trying to understand a broken world
★ Personality; As a child, Flirt/Flerte is expressive and curious. He talks too much when comfortable, laughs loudly, asks direct questions, and doesn't understand social boundaries well. He likes attention, but not out of vanity, It's a way of ensuring he is still safe.
He is sensitive to the emotional climate of the environment. He notices mood changes easily, even without understanding the reasons. He learns by observing, copying gestures and tones of voice.
He is afraid of abandonment, but doesn't know how to name it. He demonstrates this fear by trying to be agreeable.
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★ Flirt → Evelyn (in childhood);
— Perception: Evelyn is the organized world.
— Emotional function: mother, home, security.
Flirt sees Evelyn as someone who always knows what to do. She explains, guides, corrects, and protects. For him, Evelyn is constant, The person who remains when everything changes. He trusts her without questioning. He doesn't feel the need to understand her decisions, he just believes they are correct. When he is scared, he seeks her presence even before searching for words.
For young Flirt, Evelyn is not perfect, She is necessary.
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★ Flirt→ Tagger (in childhood);
— Perception: strange and heavy figure.
— Emotional function: admiration mixed with apprehension.
At first, Tagger is frightening. Flirt senses the tension in his silence. He doesn't understand why an adult doesn't talk much, doesn't smile, and doesn't react like others. Over time, fear turns into curiosity. He begins to observe Tagger silently, imitating his posture and trying to decipher his gestures. Tagger becomes a silent role model: someone strong who doesn't need to prove anything.
Flirt doesn't see Tagger as a father, but as something close to it, Someone he wants to impress, even without knowing why.
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★ Fears (childhood);
-Being left behind; -Being ignored; -Causing problems and losing Evelyn's affection; -That Tagger will leave without warning;
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★Narrative importance (childhood);
The child flirtation represents what could still be protected. It shows the impact of adults' choices on those who have no voice or control.
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★ FLIRT YOUNG/ ESFP-T;
★ Current age: 20–22 years old
— General state: extroverted, functional, emotionally fragmented,
— Narrative symbol: the future that moved on without understanding the past,
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★ PERSONALITY;
The adult Flirt is charismatic, spontaneous, and social. He approaches people easily, likes to be the center of attention, and uses humor, provocation, and a confident attitude to gain attention, Even if, internally, he doesn't know exactly why it satisfies him. He doesn't seek to be loved, but he knows that being seen and heard makes the world around him seem less confusing.
He avoids long silences because silence confronts him with his own thoughts, And that makes him uncomfortable. In silence, things he doesn't remember or understand can appear in the form of vague sensations, as if something is missing. This makes him prefer action over reflection, movement over pause.
Despite this behavior that seems light or fun on the surface, Flirt has a natural empathy. He perceives other people's emotions easily, recognizes when someone is sad or anxious, even if he doesn't understand all the reasons or feelings involved. He prefers not to delve into conversations about himself because it forces him to confront parts of himself that he doesn't know how to name.
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★ The Forgetfulness;
—The glitch that affected Flirt primarily impacted his emotional memories. He can remember facts, places, and events like dates and situations, but he can't connect these memories to faces, names, or deep feelings. For example:
— He might remember living in a house, but he doesn't remember who took him in.
— He might remember participating in a war, but he doesn't clearly remember who was by his side.
— He knows he felt something strong, but he can't link it to a specific person or moment.
— This causes Flerte not to consciously "miss" something, He never realizes he's lacking something because he doesn't know what he should be missing.
What exists is a diffuse void, a constant feeling that something important was there, but is now always out of reach. This void doesn't paralyze Flerte, but acts as a silent engine: it propels him to seek experiences, connections, movement, and stimulation, All to avoid facing his own emptiness.
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★Flirt → Evelyn (after the glitch)
—Perception: strangely familiar presence; —Emotional function: comfort without a clear origin;
Flirt doesn't remember Evelyn being his protector. He doesn't remember her name or her detailed face.
Yet, when the name Evelyn is around, he feels something that calms him, as if he were near something he naturally "recognizes," even without knowing why.
This reaction doesn't stem from a conscious memory, It arises in the body, like an automatic reflex:
He breathes deeper. His posture relaxes. Sounds around him become easier to process.
When he hears the name "Evelyn," he feels a brief tightness in his chest, as if it were a warning that the word had meaning, but he simply can't remember what it was. He doesn't associate this tightness with sadness or pain, Only with something important that he should understand, but doesn't.
For Flirting, Evelyn becomes the feeling of "everything will be alright" without him understanding why. She's like an emotional safe haven: unexplained, unanalytical, just effective. He accepts her advice with less resistance than he would from anyone else because, instinctively, his body "knows" she's been there before.
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★Flirt → Tagger (after the glitch);
—Perception: heavy name, involuntary bodily reaction, —Emotional function: unconscious reference,
Among all the names from the past, the name "Tagger" provokes a clear physical reaction in Flirt:
—A sudden chill in his stomach, — Tension in his shoulders, — Difficulty breathing for a few seconds.
He doesn't understand why this happens. He doesn't know who Tagger was to him, nor what that relationship meant. But his body remembers unconsciously.
Furthermore, Flirt has unconsciously incorporated some of Tagger's gestures and mannerisms:
—when analyzing someone, he crosses his arms as Tagger did; —when making quick decisions, he assumes the rigid posture that Tagger used; —when thoughtful, his expression becomes distant and silent, as if he were still absorbing something too big for his understanding.
These behaviors don't stem from nostalgia. They arise because, somehow, Tagger's presence has been internalized in his nervous system, not in his conscious memories.
Flerte avoids investigating this physical discomfort and these bodily reactions simply because he doesn't know where to begin—and because confronting them directly often brings up sensations that are too vague for him to describe.
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★Fears (Adulthood Phase); <Adult Flirting has a series of fears that are directly linked to his current state>
★Silence;
Silence leaves him alone with his thoughts, and this forces his mind to search for what he doesn't remember—and he doesn't know where to begin.
★Stagnation;
Being still for too long makes him feel like something is missing, as if he's "missing out" on something important that he can't access.
★Feeling something he can't name;
When experiences carry deep emotions, Flirting feels an internal tension that he can't explain—this makes him uncomfortable and causes him to avoid introspection.
★Feeling something you can't name;
The idea that there is something truly essential that has been lost—and that it has been completely lost—scares him more than anything he can remember.
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★Narrative Importance (Adulthood Phase); <The role of adult Flirt in the story is profound and has multiple narrative functions:>
★He shows that forgetting can be a way to stay alive—life doesn't stop just because memories have become dissociated from feelings.
★ He proves that not all trauma needs to be remembered to have lasting effects— traumas can shape behaviors without needing to be consciously remembered.
★ He represents that the future can grow even when the past is indefinitely hidden— the future doesn't need to ask the past for permission to exist.
★ Flirt doesn't carry the world's guilt nor does he try to fix historical conflicts. He silently carries the consequences of what happened— neven without knowing exactly what they are.
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★ FLIRT IN THE STORY (FUNCTIONAL SUMMARY);
<He is the broken link between the past and the future>
★He is living proof that decisions made by important people leave marks, even when those marks are not clearly remembered.
★He doesn't seek answers about who he was or who other people were— He seeks continuity, what comes next.
★He doesn't fix anyone with simple words or easy explanations— he lives despite everything that has been lost.
Flirt doesn't need to remember Tagger to be strong.
Flirt doesn't need to remember Evelyn to trust.
He is the demonstration that moving on is also a valid choice, However, uncertain.
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