The asteroid Nephthys (287) is about security. The opposite of ones Nephthys placement is where one experiences insecurity.
Secure, avoidant, and anxious attachment styles describe how people tend to connect in close relationships. Secure attachment is marked by comfort with intimacy and independence—securely attached people trust others, communicate needs openly, and handle conflict without excessive fear or withdrawal.
Insecurity can manifest in different ways. Most people would think of an insecure attachment as the anxious attachment style which is driven by fear of abandonment—anxiously attached people often seek constant reassurance, feel highly sensitive to perceived rejection, and may become preoccupied with their partner’s availability. However, insecurity can also manifest as an avoidant partner. Avoidant attachment leans toward emotional distance; avoidant individuals value self-reliance, often downplay feelings, and may pull away when relationships become too close.
The husband of Nephthys is Set/Seth (86551) which is about Leadership.
Leadership is the ability to guide, inspire, and support others toward a shared purpose while staying grounded in integrity and vision. True leadership isn’t about authority or titles—it’s about influence, trust, and accountability. Great leaders listen as much as they speak, make thoughtful decisions under pressure, and create environments where people feel valued and empowered to do their best work. At its core, leadership is service: setting a clear direction, modeling the behavior you expect from others, and helping people grow beyond what they believed was possible.
