#findingtherightone

a friend once asked me: bkit apura pundar mo at ipon mo wala ka namang jowa?

well for me sometimes its about security...

when I say security..

Im referring to stability..

you can have your "jowa" at your convience but you’ll never have a jowa till the end..

kapag nadisappoint na sya syo..at di na sya kontento..

 parang switch lang nang ilaw yan madaling

 ma off...

ibig ko lang sabihin e para sakin ang forever na hinahanap hanap mo e makukuha mo kapag kaya mong mag sustain ng relationship..

and when it comes in sustaining a relationship para sakin again ha(para sakin  lang! iba iba naman tayo e)..

e kelangan mong mging consistent..you need to make her happy all the time!! you need to make her feel contented..you need to make her feel secured!

hindi lang secure pag dating sa pag mamahal mo sa kanya..(kase given na yun e!)

 kase in reality love will fade! nawawala yun lalo na kung hindi na niya nakikita yung taong inakala niya nung una e ikaw! Everything change! even love.. even adoration.. feelings!.. feelings change! 

 "mahal na mahal mo ko! "  oo mahal mo ko!  but with the same breath!   mamarinig mo din na:    

"di ko na kaya"     

"sawa na ko" 

bakit?? kase nga everything change..nagsawa..nabored..di nakapag hintay...yon lang yon..its eathier nangako ka nang di mo kayang panindigan o di ka niya nahintay na mapanindigan mo kung ano yung pinangako mo..pero ano man sa rason na yon isa lang ending non..

IIWAN KA!!

kaya para sakin sa ngayon hanggat single ka  mas mahalaga yung gawing mo worth it ang sarili mo..

maging deserving ka...

kaya hanggang wala pa..

I wanted to grow on my own..

I want to secure myself..

para pag dumating sya o yung hinihintay nating lahat na "the right one"

hindi na tayo maiiwan.

Every detail matters. Don’t mess it up during a date.

.Relationship Dilemma: Single With Kids

In today’s society, everyone wants to find the right one and it is not uncommon to see single women and men with children. As a single person with kids, does that make it ten times harder to find a mate? Well, let’s find out.

A social media poll was taken asking single men and women, “Can having kids disqualify you from being with the right person? And if they met another single person with a…