Misconception.
I have this old friend that I used to hangout and talk to after work. It was a long cycle of madness until we walked a different path but even after several years, we have kept our communication and are still existing in each other's life. Just recently I received a message from him saying hi and asking how I am. I fell asleep and dreamt of this person in a silly romcom way. I woke up feeling funny and it reminded me of my frustrations the night before Christmas. This dream didn't make me feel anything, not even an interest that day to respond to that old friend of mine and it made me realize more that all the information you might have believed about dreams are just purely misconceptions. People usually tell you that you dream of someone because they've missed you or probably the other way around, you missing that someone. Not that I ever believed any of that, but if you let your emotions control you then you are bound to embrace a very wrong understanding. People may just appear in your dreams because of their presence on your conscious mind, even if it's just a name or a thing that reminds you of that person. But we have the power to decide what we put in that little head of ours and if we fill it with malice, then that's where the downfall begins. Because reality may have nothing to do with what you are imagining but sometimes people wanted to believe that what they think is what is actually happening.
To everyone who's still stuck in that belief, I hope you wake up soon and stop living in that nonsense fantasy of yours. Nothing good ever happens when you rely much on your historical emotions than what's actually logical.
Mind over matter really.
