Ways To Deal With Criticism In A Postive Way.
Positivity and criticism are long lost, enemies. Especially in the life of the students, these two images plays a very pivotal part. So how to deal with criticism in a positive way when people around you are so much busy bullying your dream!
1. Confident about your goal
This means that no matter what the people say after listening to your future plannings, you must not deviate from your path. Be sure about the road you are walking and drive the car.
2.Keep Your Goal To yourself
Never reveal too much too soon! This means, don’t try to justify your goals to everybody. Cause most of them will flood your mind with negative thoughts as to why you should avoid taking up this particular job or career and many such samaritan thoughts. So, it’s better to reveal less and keep your goal to yourself. Learn to control your excitement, cause, neither you nor your goal has achieved the needed heights, so since it is still in its initial stage, reveal less about your plannings. Yes, you can share your thoughts with those whom you think will encourage you.
3.Spend some ME-TIME
You know a moment of solitude enhances your creative mind and which in return helps you to think broadly. So, keep away your phones, laptops and spend a-lone time, only you and the surrounding silence. Think about how can you master your skills, think about your flaws and work to rectify them.
4. Get closer to people who has achieved success in the same path you’re willing to walk
Read books or get connected with them through facebook, twitter or Instagram. Take inspiration from their life and help yourself to work it out.
5. Lastly Maintain a journal of your achivements so far
This is my secret mantra to fight off criticisms and maintain a positive mind. Your journal can be anything, be it your smartphone or something like a diary. Write about the challenges you’ve survived. Like-
How you overcame your fear of maths and scored a moderately good marks during your high school,
learning a new language and how it helped you to be that smart guy/girl in your group, etc and many such survival stincts.
Why you should do this?? Because whenever you feel low or you feel deprived, just looks at these challenges and say to yourself “I had survived those and I can survive the incoming problems too”..
Believe me, nothing can break you if you yourself be your own support. Be an inspiration to yourself and also for those others like you. Keep fighting and yes be positive.
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