Interview with a Migrant: Fieldwork Assignment Chapter 13
Mia Hickman
SOCI 110.001
Dr. Angela Howell
November 18, 2017
My name is Nadine, and I was interviewed by one of the high school classmates, Mia about my experience as an immigrant in the United States. This is my story.
I am originally from Togo. It is West African country located between Ghana and Benin. I left my country in pursuit of the American Dream. My mother and father wanted to give my sister and I the best opportunities possible. Education, healthcare, quality of life. They new that in America these things could be so much more than what they would be in Togo. We were pretty fortunate in coming here. We did not have to wait long to get our visas and whatnot. Although, I do remember my mother wanted to bring more of us over. The was a young man we considered a brother to the family. He practically was family. My mother wanted to bring him over, but because he did not share our last name, the United States government did not recognize him as such.
So, we left. I was only four years old when we immigrated to the United States. My sister was only two years old then. When we came over, we lived with my grandmother. She had already been living the States for awhile, so it was her that helped us adjust to our new life. She let us stay with her until parents had enough money to buy a place of their own. I never specifically remember âassimilatingâ into American culture. I was brought over so young, and did not really grow up in my Togolese culture. I grew up surrounded by American culture. I often struggled with remembering traditions and customs from back home. The two cultures would often times clash. At times, I remember my mother reminding that I, âWas not one of these Black American kids. Youâre African, remember our culture and traditionsâ.
In Togo, it is typical of the women to cater to the men. The women cook, clean, and care for the children. Only a few women break this norm and have both a family and a career. This is the norm. In America, this occurs tenfold. There is more leniency for women who decide to have career and not get married and have children. My parents brought us to this country so we could grow up and have successful, amazing futures. They wanted us to find a good careers and jobs, that pay well of course, so we can be successful and independent. My momâs family always stressed the importance of education, so I knew that my mother would the same to us. However, her parents also equally stressed how important it was for her to marry someone wealthy and start a family. She in a way, did the same thing to me as well. My life is so different from my parents life, both their families werenât rich and they had a lot of siblings. Their fathers had more than one wife and they struggled growing up and they didnât have as much opportunities that my sister and I have. Growing up we had access to a good education we played sports we didnât always get everything we wanted but we got everything we needed
Despite my life being so different from my parentsâ, without them and their sacrifices I never would have it where I am today. I am forever grateful for them and for the American Dream.











