#feyboy

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Luz Noceda from The Owl House is an autistic dissofictional bisexual lovime gendercreative weirdgirlgender boyhoodlexic illusoboy boycreaturicfreak loswonderia cactic queertine violeboy stermascwayboy kidmascgender feyboy trannyboy hymasc nonfemhoarder loverboy starboy notdeeriecorian mlmbodiment lovguiltraumic trans man and age dreamer with PTSD who uses he/him pronouns!

He's dating Hunter, a bisexual princeanomaly loserboyic defectgender goodboypenamic canyonwolfic boylovtix nightbraindark traumatiwolfplushic intersex trans man and age regressor with PTSD and DID who uses he/him pronouns!

Hunter's alter The Golden Guard is a demiplatonialterous aroace intersex fearshroudic nebumasc traumorkeinic timorthin traumadog nosboy with hypersexuality who uses it/its pronouns!

Amity Blight is a hatermantic lesbian nonbinary ontfille limerencial potestasgender followous bloodyfangic abominacovenbitch with PTSD, OCD, and BPD who experiences intrusive thoughts, turbulent attraction, and delusions and uses they/them and she/her pronouns!

Vee is an autistic lykoen shifterboy hallowcoretraumic dehumanix lilbroplushemoic vintagegarfplushic deepalthic fishnetclothic macarnivalia boything with PTSD who uses he/him pronouns!

Willow Park is a pansexual genderfluid lonewolfic rainfroutton enchantrea dymanic faevitien genderstalgia natudeeri person with PTSD, anxiety, and depression who uses he/him, she/her, and they/them pronouns!

Gus Porter is an autistic nonbinary inchbeanic slushiliminic sharkslugic herbaliekidmasc paleofixic dinotoyix person with PTSD who uses he/him pronouns!

that feeling never goes away entirely. you’ll always feel like you’re trying to catch up, even if you read every book and go to therapy constantly.

give alters space. emphasize safety. this is our home. this is our safe space. no one is upset with you. you are okay here.

encourage writing and notetaking. leave paper and pen out of parts that arent into technology and have a tech place for the rest.

let everyone have something that’s “theirs” some of our kids have a plushie that is just for them. those of us who are older have a t shirt or bag or eyeliner or something that we picked out or asked for that is just for us. we can give other parts permission to use it but ultimately its up to us who gets to do that and it feels like control and security

develop a support system. you need an in person friend who knows about DID. you need a space to create writing and art and journal. you need a therapist. you need a psychiatrist. you need a doctor. you need a social outlet that is not at all related to trauma or DID or health. you cannot internalize your support team or rely on online interaction alone.

do not immerse yourself in the online community. it is not healthy, it is not reliable, and it is not supportive. yes, there are places that are okay, but i cannot express how unhealthy most of these spaces are. places that encourage confession, venting, oversharing, gossip, and hunting for fakes. get out.

get in person hobbies. some alters will like different ones, but encourage hands on activities like drawing, crochet, baking, writing on paper, etc. its EXTREMELY therapeutic and healthy

Thank you, I really appreciate everyone’s concern and positive messages   m(_ _ )m It’s just been a rough time for quite a few months now and this event has made my anxiety reach a new peak... Without going into details, I’m glad the people didn’t take my medicine and wheelchair away. At least for now, I’m going to spend more time in my recovery and try to, somehow, recover the files I had on my phone, as well as my mental stability haha...

Anyways, sorry for rambling, and thank you again for your message! It really means a lot to me right now, and I’ll make sure to recover the best and fastest way I can <(_ _*)>

what about good parents, a small child gave me a Father’s Day present today which I assume was either an acknowledgement of the fact that time isn’t real OR of my cat parenting (which has been pretty decent if I do say so myself)

@feyboy

I’m not on a schedule-bound mission to reward good parents (tbh I don’t do well with any schedules) so it wasn’t one of my signals or at least not one I was aware of sending (which does happen, to be honest, premature remuneration) but you know. Kids. They’re like cats and gods and turtles (which are honestly all the same thing). They send and perceive their own kind of vibes and react to it. Even I can’t fully grasp it. I mean, I could, but I don’t want to. I like surprises.

lmao-

18. Do you believe dreams have meanings or are they completely random?