As Pride Month is ending, I want to remind that we should always have each other backs. It's so tiring, not to say sickening, seeing in OUR OWN COMMUNITY any form of queerphobia or nosense fight AGAINST EACH OTHER. It's not helping us at all dividing ourselves this way. In this sh1tty soon-to-become dystopian world it should only be us TOGETHER defending the right to love and to express ourselves freely beyond gender, stereotypes, and despite the patriarchal and capitalist society that enforces on a day-to-day basis rules about how we should be, love, act and EXIST. Please remember that we are in this ALL TOGETHER and every single battle that we fight because of out sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression and AGAB and body autonomy IS ABOUT ALL OF US. IT AFFECTS EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US. AND WE SHOULD CARE ABOUT OUR FELLOW FOLKS STRUGGLES AS WELL AS OUR OWN.

It's ok to have specific spaces for discourses related to a specific identity (take this blog for example lmao) but we shouldn't NEVER EVER DIVIDE OURSELVES FROM THE REST OF THE COMMUNITY.

IT'S NOT US VS US.

IT'S US VS HOMO/LES/BI/ACE/TRANS/QUEER PHOBIC WHITE CISHET PEOPLE FFS!!!!!!

AND THEY'RE NOT GONNA GIVE YOU A FVCKING PRIZE FOR BEING A TRANSPHOBIC HOMOSEXUAL, A BIPHOBIC LESBIAN, A EXORSEXIST BINARY TRANS PERSON, ACEPHOBIC, OR FOR EXCLUDING INTERSEX PEOPLE FROM OUR COMMUNITY, OR FOR BEING ANY OTHER FORM OF QUEERPHOBIC AS A QUEER PERSON!!!!

THAT'S. EXACTLY. WHAT. THEY. WANT. US. TO. DO.

BECAUSE. DIVIDED. WE. ARE. LESS. STRONG. AND. THEY. CAN. TAKE. AWAY. OUR. (FEW) FUCKING. RIGHTS. MORE. EASILY.

Now repeat with me. It's LGBTQIA+. NOT LG, NOT LGB, NOT (only) LGBT

There's no LGBTQIA+ without EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US.

No L without the G. No LG without the B. No LGB without the T. No LGBT without the Q. No LGBTQ without the I. No LGBTQI without the A. No LGBTQIA without the + !!!!!

You also don't have to understand every nuance of our identities to support it.

We all matter and we're all in this together beyond ethnicities, religions, and cultures all over the world.

Also please think about Afghanistan. Think about Palestine. Think about Ukraine. People are being oppressed everyday. People are dy1ng everyday.

Our community is especially about freedom, about fighting for those who can't or have even less rights and privileges then us. And aknowledge that in our own community certain groups have different struggles SHOULD NOT MEAN attacking the others. We should always use our voice to DEFEND our siblings instead. No one will win fighting alone and against its allies. Just something to think about.

I mean society is lazy. Holding a fucking stinky cheater accountable means work: court dates, therapy bills, awkward family dinners, losing the house, the friends who'll say "but he's changed!" Easier to blame the mom (if she'd just stayed quiet), or hit her with the "think of the children!🥺🐥" That way, nobody has to ask: did you really do that? did you fuck her ? why did you risk your marriage for a woman of the night? so it's easier to let him keep his job, his dignity, his dick. Easier than admitting the system's built to forgive him, because admitting that means fixing it. And fixing it? That's too much sweat and too much responsibility for someone who will have a safety net no matter what, for someone who will walk out Scott free no matter and probably repeat the same thing elsewhere because accountability isn't sexy. It's messy. And men get the clean break, every time over and over again.

they get rewarded multiple starting over awards and as many families as they possibly could wish. but again Fredrich Nietzche said something about morality being subjective so technically most people are not angry that men left broken families behind, they are mad they can't move the Way men move, is like how men move around the world, the way they can impose themselves, the way they always have safety nets, the way they are made greater than they are regardless.

Men: feminism has ruined happy traditional homes.