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I'll probably never understand why people think internet trolling and fatshaming is an effective method of communication. Don't they see how stupid it makes them look? Don't they know that the age old narrative of "obesity=death" is implanted in the mind of literally every human alive? We're all familiar with it- why are they trying to argue that point and pass it off like new information? Do you think it makes them feel strong and powerful to see their hateful words on a computer screen? Damn, that's sad. Do they not know that we don't give a fuck? Actually, lemme not speak on your behalf- don't they know that I don't give a fuck? It's a source of actual confusion for me, and when I see people hop up in my mentions in an attempt to provide education about how I'm (apparently) promoting an unhealthy lifestyle by telling people it's ok to be happy, fat and athletic, I'm just like "Don't you have a life to live? Why are you wasting your time shout-typing shit no one cares about?" Thankfully, my yoga practice has helped me find a way to say, "But honestly, Jessamyn- who even cares because the universe is so much bigger than all of this nonsense?" But there's a piece of me that's definitely rolling her eyes at the haters and saying, "Why are you letting the world know that you're a small minded dumbass who needs to have your ego reaffirmed by talking shit about strangers on the internet in the name of health education? Is it that hard to get a life and mind your own business? Because some of y'all make it look damn near impossible." To those of you who are ready to don your armor and spar with these fools, please don't feel compelled to argue with trolls on my behalf. They are weak minded, insecure, and suffering from a level of boredom and unhappiness that I truly can't fathom. It's really not worth anyone's time. Life is brief and it shouldn't be spent battling with idiots. Go out and live in your truth- if we want to argue in the name of a new way to be healthy, there's no better method at our disposal. Throwback to that time I drank green juice in my Olga Intimates bra #fearlesslyflirty (at Durham, North Carolina)

Loving this new bra and panty set from the Olga Flirty collection. So many cute pieces in extended sizes, including these 3x lace panties.

#Repost @mynameisjessamyn with @repostapp ・・・ I'll probably never understand why people think internet trolling and fatshaming is an effective method of communication. Don't they see how stupid it makes them look? Don't they know that the age old narrative of "obesity=death" is implanted in the mind of literally every human alive? We're all familiar with it- why are they trying to argue that point and pass it off like new information? Do you think it makes them feel strong and powerful to see their hateful words on a computer screen? Damn, that's sad. Do they not know that we don't give a fuck? Actually, lemme not speak on your behalf- don't they know that I don't give a fuck? It's a source of actual confusion for me, and when I see people hop up in my mentions in an attempt to provide education about how I'm (apparently) promoting an unhealthy lifestyle by telling people it's ok to be happy, fat and athletic, I'm just like "Don't you have a life to live? Why are you wasting your time shout-typing shit no one cares about?" Thankfully, my yoga practice has helped me find a way to say, "But honestly, Jessamyn- who even cares because the universe is so much bigger than all of this nonsense?" But there's a piece of me that's definitely rolling her eyes at the haters and saying, "Why are you letting the world know that you're a small minded dumbass who needs to have your ego reaffirmed by talking shit about strangers on the internet in the name of health education? Is it that hard to get a life and mind your own business? Because some of y'all make it look damn near impossible." To those of you who are ready to don your armor and spar with these fools, please don't feel compelled to argue with trolls on my behalf. They are weak minded, insecure, and suffering from a level of boredom and unhappiness that I truly can't fathom. It's really not worth anyone's time. Life is brief and it shouldn't be spent battling with idiots. Go out and live in your truth- if we want to argue in the name of a new way to be healthy, there's no better method at our disposal. Throwback to that time I drank green juice in my Olga Intimates bra #fearlesslyflirty

I've had a fucked up relationship with food my whole life. Since you're not my therapist, I won't bore you by unpacking that particular heap of emotional baggage. But if you follow me on instastories or Snapchat then you've probably noticed that healthy eating has cropped up a lot over the past few months. One of my lovely local students asked me why (heyyy Sarah) & I said it's because there's very little space for fat positive and body positive folks to speak about healthy eating without walking down a knife blade of body negativity. Quite frankly, the healthy eating world tends to be EXTREMELY body negative, even though many of us fatpos & bodypos people work towards/live healthy lifestyles. These days, I'm determining what healthy eating REALLY means to me, without the trappings of body negativity. Yes, I've been a big fan of juicing and meatless meals for ages, but I'm incorporating some new techniques into my lifestyle. I did @kathrynbudig's five day #aimtrue purification from her newest book, so my head's in the right place. My play cousin @koyawebb periodically drops golden vegan knowledge on me, and she helped me find a protein powder (@sunwarriortribe) that doesn't make me want to vom. I have long since been inspired by @cbquality's plant life Snapchat inspiration, @amyippoliti is my paleo touch point, & obsessively stalking @bigbottombehavior got me on the "drink half your body weight in h2o" train which is SO MUCH BETTER FOR MY COLON than 8/8oz glasses of h2o but also SO MUCH HARDER TO DO. But let's be real- I'm just glad I live in a country where clean water is plentiful so I can actually refill my water bottle that many damn times without fear of something bad happening. And I'm also glad that I can afford to financially prioritize healthy eating- no matter what people say, it is SO MUCH HARDER to eat healthy when you're on a strict af budget. And yeah, I know I'll probably fall off the wagon at some point. But I'm not focused on that, I'm just gonna stay in the moment and drink my fucking juice. Btw, This bra was a gift from Olga Intimates- thanks y'all. #fearlesslyflirty (at Durham, North Carolina)

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