#fatmaibrahim

You’ve got to understand that there’s a difference between the intentions of the things you say or do and how they are received. So even if you didn’t mean to hurt someone by your actions or word, you can’t completely disown their experience

When you’re really pushing someone to tell you what’s wrong, because 1 you genuinely care and 2 you genuinely think maybe you could help. And so they go in to telling you, and it’s just so shocking the only thing you have to say is “oh wow man I really don’t know what to say to that”