#failfox

ooo yeah

i’ll start by saying you have it right when you say “means for me”. you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone else, and even if you did “figure it out”, it may change in the future.

separate from my expression, i think she/they feels as accurate as it can be at the moment. to me, my womanhood and femininity feels comfortable and pretty much reflexive. there are aspects i love and am even proud of. simultaneously, i despise gender and being labeled anything. i want to be known for who i am as a person, and i think however femme or masc or androgynous i appear or act has nothing to do with who i am (or at least its last on the list of ways in which i want to be known).

i, too, have recently added neutral pronouns. and i’ve never put much thought into the outfits i put together, so im still trying to figure out how i express myself in that regard. i often wish i could wake up and just be formless? idk

when i really think about it, i want to be stripped of all expectation, and gender neutrality represents a sort of freedom to me that i really value.

nerdiest? this is a good question! i’m not usually the lecture type, so i really had to think about this

-makeup styles, techniques, and brands i like

-harm reduction in substance use treatment

-an empirical study of working at whole foods

-my top 10 music concert experiences

Fried chicken, cupcakes, and pecan pie bars.

I love to make cupcakes especially. Piping is so much fun. And coming up with new recipes and flavors.

But the way I show I care is through fried chicken, cupcakes, and pecan pie bars.

5 hours ain’t bad tbh. That’s my average. My friend spent like 15 hours in one last year because it was so busy