#estp characters

- be half animal

- have a gorgeous hair

- be an ESTP

Following my last post about the Stardew marriage candidates and their MBTI types, I've been learning more about Enneagram, how it pairs with MBTI, and how it changes some of the typical characteristics of each type.

The Enneagram and MBTI complement each other wonderfully, providing greater depth and understanding of how a person interacts with the world [Cognitive Functions] and their motivations why [Core Desire/Core Fear]. So without further ado, here are my thoughts on each marriage candidate's Enneagram paired with their MBTI, starting with Alex.

Alex - ESTP 3w2: “The Ultimate Showman”

“ESTP 3w2 lives for the limelight and adoration. However, there’s more. The ESTP 3w2 is goal-oriented with a touch of generosity. They are the game-changers and dealbreakers. Because they have type 2 as a wing, they also want appreciation for their heroics. They turn the aggressive nature of the ESTP into something more entertaining to watch.” – Personality Hunt

Alex’s Core Desire: To be successful

The core desire of the ESTP 3w2 is to be successful. Alex's dream is to become a professional gridball player -- and enjoy all the fame and fortune that comes with it. He measures his success and sense of self-worth on external admiration and appreciation from others.

"You know, I used to want fame and fortune, but lately I've been starting to sing a different tune.”

“Yes... I know. That's why I've been so determined to be successful with my sports stuff...Make it or not... As long as I try my hardest, I think [my mom]'d be proud. Thanks.”

Alex’s Core Fear: To be seen as a failure

The core fear of the ESTP 3w2 is to be seen as a failure. Alex fears being viewed as a failure or worthless, especially by those closest to him. He perceives his sense of failure or worthlessness from external criticism or other's lack of appreciation [whether real or not].

“… [my dad] ruined everything for me and my mom… he'd drink all night and tell me I'm worthless, that I'd never amount to anything.”

“That's insane. You're just jealous that I'm talented and popular and you're not.” ---------------------------------------------------------------------------

How Enneagram 3w2 changes typical ESTP behaviour: New Strengths

1. Extra Charming

ESTPs are naturally charming, but ESTP 3w2s take this to a new level. Type 3s are excellent at persuasion and subtle manipulation, enhancing the ESTP's natural Extroverted Feeling [Fe] ability to woo and flatter others.

Examples:

“Hey, now that's what I'm talking about! You're cooler than I thought.”

"Heard you caught some kind of rare fish? I'm impressed. Your arms must be stronger than they look! pinch … not bad!"

"Hey, Farmer. Did you do something different with your hair? Something keeps grabbing my attention.",

"Hey, you look like you're getting into some good shape this summer! All that farm work is paying off, huh?"

2. More Helpful

Type 2s are known for being helpful, and because of this, ESTP 3w2s often find joy in helping others. Their motives might sometimes be questionable due to being type 3 but mature 3w2s can make generous and inspiring leaders.

Examples:

“If I ever make a lot of money, I'll make sure all my friends and family are taken care of. That means you, too.”

“I've been setting aside a few scraps for Dusty. He deserves a treat now and then.”

"Hey, honey! I made you a hot breakfast. If you want to get strong, you have to eat like you mean it!” "I'm still getting used to cooking and doing laundry… It's not exactly my favorite, but I knew what I was getting into when I married you." "There's a couple things around the house that I'm going to try and fix today. Don't worry about me, I'm not bored."

3. More Tactful

ESTPs are known for being blunt and tactless, but 3w2s realize that to help get what they want, being tactful has benefits. This only applies if they want to get close to someone or if it's with someone they respect. With everyone else, they typically don't care.

Examples:

“Oh wow...your shoes are a little dirty... but that's fine, too! Different people have different tastes I guess.” [Four Hearts] [Beach invite accept] "Of course you do. If you didn't I'd think you were crazy. Or some kind of nerd" [Beach invite rejection] "Really? You must be some kind of weirdo."

4. Better Work Ethic

The combination of Type 3 and ESTP makes them highly self-motivated and goal-oriented. As a result, ESTP 3w2s are true powerhouses of determination who go hard for their beliefs and stop at nothing to achieve their dreams.

Examples:

"I'm going to be the first professional gridball player from Stardew Valley… There's no doubt in my mind. I already led my school's team to the regional playoffs… Now I'm just training and getting stronger so I can claim my spot on the roster of the Zuzu City Tunnelers. You just wait!

5. More Disciplined

ESTPs aren't the most organized people, but because of the ESTP 3w2s' need to be successful, they are a bit more disciplined than typical ESTPs; However, they still tend to be scatterbrained in other aspects of life.

Examples:

“I'm going to do two hundred sit-ups tonight. I'm pretty dedicated, aren't I?”

“Oh, I almost forgot! It's my day for doing push-ups! Every time I do push-ups I try to do one more than last time.” “You have to work really hard if you want to achieve your maximum potential.”

“ My arms are really sore, but that's the sign of progress for a guy like me. I must've done a thousand push-ups yesterday.”

"Sorry my room is so messy. It's just hard to always remember to clean. I'm trying to get better, though."

6. Better Fashion Sense

Due to their primary function [Extroverted Sensing], ESTPs typically have an eye for beauty or aesthetically pleasing things. ESTP 3w2s, however, take their appearance much more seriously than just simple appreciation. Because type 2s and 3s are highly concerned with public appearances and reputation, ESTP 3w2s have a strong sense of fashion.

Examples:

“Did you get new pants? You're doing something right.”

“Did you do something different with your hair? Something keeps grabbing my attention.”

“If my hair wasn't so popular with the ladies, I swear I'd shave it all off in a second.”

"There's some weird people living in this town…like that guy Sebastian. Why does he wear black all the time? I don't get it."

New Weaknesses

1. Loss of Identity/Self-Awareness

ESTP 3w2s are masters at adapting to people's desires and emotions but they also risk losing their sense of self in others. As a result, ESTPs wear a facade for long periods. And when they have to drop the mask, they can't remember who they are.

Examples:

"I've started to realize that… well, that I've been really rude towards you in the past. You know, about going pro and all that. I guess I might not actually be cut out for professional sports… maybe it was just a childish dream… you know? " "Look at all these books. I haven't read a single one. Just the thought of cracking one open makes me nervous. But you can't make a decent living in this world without a brain…I'm worthless…"

2. Need for External Validation

Because ESTP 3w2s are self-image-focused, they highly value motivation and encouragement through external validation - it gives them the drive to keep pushing. The dangerous side is that they can view their accomplishments as less valuable if they don't receive recognition for their efforts. They can fish for compliments or get cranky if they don't feel appreciated. At worst, this can lead to serious self-doubt. But ESTPs are tenacious and will quickly bounce back regardless.

Examples:

"*sniff*... "Oh… Farmer. You saw me crying. ... "So… What are you thinking right now? "Well, there's no sense sitting around sniveling… let's head back to town. "Um… Farmer? Don't tell anyone I was crying. Okay?"

“Hey, can I ask you something? Do you think the ladies like my haircut?”

“Hey, I've been practicing twice as hard so I can turn pro and prove you wrong. You just wait.”

"Well, I'm not going to give up! If I work hard, I can do anything!"

3. Mild/Moderate People-Pleasing

"The need to be appreciated and to excel makes the ESTP 3w2s mild people-pleasers. However, make no mistake. The act of people-pleasing is only done when it benefits them. This personality type is always playing the long game. If people pleasing can get them there, so be it." - Personality Hunt

Examples:

“Hey Farmer girl. You've got a nice tan going. The more I practice this summer, the easier it'll be for me to go pro. Then you'd be able to say you knew me once. Cool, huh?” Hey, when I turn pro you can say you were my first "fan". Not bad, huh?

"Hey, you must be getting pretty strong working on that farm all day. Maybe you'll reach my level some day. Something to look forward to, huh?"

4. Chronic Workaholics

ESTP 3w2s have an incredible work ethic, but this can also be detrimental if they aren't careful. ESTP 3w2s who don't prioritize their health and relationships alongside their goals risk becoming workaholics. This is especially true if they become competitive or are trying to help someone else achieve their goals alongside their own. Their personal well-being and relationships often suffer as a result.

Examples:

“I've been trying to do more reading lately... I feel like I've been neglecting my brain for years because of my athletic obsession.”

5. Bad Financial Decisions

ESTPs aren't the best at managing money, and being a 3w2 makes this even worse. Because they want to impress others, they will often make extravagant purchases to look more successful or affluent than they really are. This can also apply if they want to appear helpful to others, giving expensive gifts beyond their financial means.

Examples:

“I got these new shoes yesterday 'cuz my old pair had a brown smudge. I just threw them into the garbage.” "Hey, Farmer. Before you head out…I hate to ask this… but can I have 5,000g? It's for a secret project I'm working on… I know we have a joint bank account, but I thought I should ask anyway."

"Thanks again for the money, Farmer. It was a fun project for me, and all the guys seem happy with it!"

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Conclusion

Though it can be challenging to type Alex [or any fictional character, for that matter] with 100% accuracy, given everything we know about his character and his personal growth throughout the game, I believe is strong evidence to suggest that Alex is an ESTP 3w2.

His Enneagram type 3 desire for fame and recognition, paired with his MBTI cognitive strengths as an ESTP, makes watching his character transform from an arrogant, superficial man with an unhealthy obsession with becoming a professional athlete into a caring, supportive, and devoted friend/partner to the farmer incredibly satisfying. Do you agree that Alex is an ESTP 3w2? If not, what type do you think he is? Let me know your thoughts in the comments :)

--------------------------------------------------------------------- References:

1. Suki 

- Her use of her SeFe is highly notable and uses the external environment to deal with problems in quick efficient ways. Unlike Sokka who gets stuck in his TeNe she is always able to figure things out quickly getting the best results for everyone. 

2. Merida 

- At the start of the film we see her neglect her Fe a bit preferring to stick to her SeTi however as the movie goes on we see her develop her Fe. 

3.Puss in Boots

-His SeFe started very strong in the film the last wish. We notice how he craves external validation constantly and how he feeds off his SeFe and how he completely neglects himself by allowing himself to develop it fully. At the end of the film he we see him truly allowing himself to use his Fe. 

4.Han Solo 

-At the start of the saga he denies any use of his Fe and would only use it to get his way. As the series goes on we see him develop his fe. In the sequel trilogy we see a more mature Han who struggled with his Fe allot. 

5.Jennifer Check 

𝐎𝐫𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐇𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝐻𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡𝑜𝑤𝑒𝑟 𝐾𝑛𝑎𝑣𝑒

ESTP

Slytherin

Chaotic Neutral

Leo Sun, Capricorn Moon, Gemini Rising

   𝖭𝗈𝗍 𝖺 𝗆𝖺𝗇 𝗍𝗈 𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗒 𝗂𝗇 𝗈𝗇𝖾 𝗉𝗅𝖺𝖼𝖾 𝗍𝗈𝗈 𝗅𝗈𝗇𝗀, 𝖮𝗋𝗆𝗎𝗇𝖽 𝗂𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗇𝗀𝖾𝗌𝗍 𝗈𝖿 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝗋𝖾𝖾 𝖧𝗂𝗀𝗁𝗍𝗈𝗐𝖾𝗋 𝖻𝗋𝗈𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋𝗌. 𝖧𝗈𝖻𝖾𝗋𝗍 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝖮𝗍𝗍𝗈 𝖽𝗂𝖽 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗂𝗋 𝖿𝖺𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋'𝗌 𝖻𝗂𝖽𝖽𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗎𝗉𝗁𝖾𝗅𝖽 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖧𝗈𝗎𝗌𝖾, 𝖻𝗎𝗍 𝖮𝗋𝗆𝗎𝗇𝖽 𝗁𝖺𝖽 𝗈𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝖽𝖾𝗌𝗂𝗋𝖾𝗌. 𝖧𝖾 𝖻𝖾𝖼𝖺𝗆𝖾 𝖿𝗋𝗂𝖾𝗇𝖽𝗌 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖻𝖺𝗍𝗍𝗅𝖾𝖿𝗂𝖾𝗅𝖽. 𝖡𝖾𝖼𝗈𝗆𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝖺 𝗌𝗄𝗂𝗅𝗅𝖾𝖽 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗐𝖾𝗅𝗅-𝗄𝗇𝗈𝗐𝗇 𝗈𝗉𝗉𝗈𝗇𝖾𝗇𝗍. 

   𝖠𝖿𝗍𝖾𝗋 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖽𝖾𝖺𝗍𝗁 𝗈𝖿 𝗁𝗂𝗌 𝗆𝗈𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋, 𝗁𝖾 𝖼𝗈𝗎𝗅𝖽 𝗇𝗈 𝗅𝗈𝗇𝗀𝖾𝗋 𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗒 𝗂𝗇 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗉𝗅𝖺𝖼𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗌𝗁𝖾 𝗈𝗇𝖼𝖾 𝖽𝗐𝖾𝗅𝗅𝖾𝖽. 𝖧𝗂𝗌 𝗅𝗈𝗏𝖾 𝖿𝗈𝗋 𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝗐𝖺𝗌 𝗌𝗍𝗋𝗈𝗇𝗀, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗂𝗍 𝗍𝗈𝗈𝗄 𝗁𝗂𝗆 𝗍𝗐𝗈 𝗒𝖾𝖺𝗋𝗌 𝖻𝖾𝖿𝗈𝗋𝖾 𝗁𝖾 𝗋𝖾𝗍𝗎𝗋𝗇𝖾𝖽 𝗍𝗈 𝖮𝗅𝖽𝗍𝗈𝗐𝗇.

   𝖠𝗅𝗍𝗁𝗈𝗎𝗀𝗁 𝗁𝖾 𝖼𝖺𝗆𝖾 𝖿𝗋𝗈𝗆 𝗆𝗈𝗇𝖾𝗒, 𝖮𝗋𝗆𝗎𝗇𝖽 𝗋𝖾𝖿𝗎𝗌𝖾𝖽 𝗍𝗈 𝖻𝖾 𝖿𝗎𝗇𝖽𝖾𝖽 𝖻𝗒 𝗁𝗂𝗌 𝖿𝖺𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋. 𝖡𝖾𝖼𝖺𝗎𝗌𝖾 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗆𝗈𝗇𝖾𝗒, 𝖼𝖺𝗆𝖾 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝖽𝗂𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇𝗌, 𝗁𝖾 𝗐𝖺𝗌𝗇'𝗍 𝗀𝗈𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗍𝗈 𝗅𝗂𝗏𝖾 𝖻𝗒 𝖺𝗇𝗈𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝗉𝖾𝗋𝗌𝗈𝗇'𝗌 𝗋𝗎𝗅𝖾𝗌.

  𝖧𝗂𝗌 𝖺𝖽𝗏𝖾𝗇𝗍𝗎𝗋𝖾𝗌 𝗐𝖾𝗋𝖾 𝗌𝗈 𝗉𝗋𝖾𝗉𝗈𝗌𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗈𝗎𝗌, 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗒 𝗍𝗋𝖺𝗏𝖾𝗅𝗅𝖾𝖽 𝖺𝗋𝗈𝗎𝗇𝖽 𝖶𝖾𝗌𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗈𝗌. 𝖧𝗂𝗌 𝗋𝖾𝗉𝗎𝗍𝖺𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇 𝗐𝖺𝗌 𝖼𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗍𝖾𝖽, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗂𝗍 𝖼𝗅𝗎𝗇𝗀 𝗍𝗈 𝗁𝗂𝗆 𝗅𝗂𝗄𝖾 𝖺𝗇𝗍𝗌 𝗂𝗇 𝗁𝗈𝗇𝖾𝗒.

  𝖭𝗈𝗐 𝖮𝗋𝗆𝗎𝗇𝖽 𝖿𝖾𝖾𝗅𝗌 𝗅𝗂𝗄𝖾 𝗁𝖾'𝗌 𝖺 𝖻𝗅𝖺𝖼𝗄 𝖼𝗅𝗈𝗎𝖽. 𝖶𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗇𝗈 𝗈𝗇𝖾 𝗈𝗇 𝗁𝗂𝗌 𝗌𝗂𝖽𝖾, 𝗇𝗈 𝗈𝗇𝖾 𝗁𝖾 𝖼𝖺𝗇 𝗋𝖾𝗅𝗒 𝗈𝗇. 𝖧𝗈𝗐𝖾𝗏𝖾𝗋, 𝗁𝖾 𝗐𝗈𝗎𝗅𝖽 𝗇𝖾𝗏𝖾𝗋 𝖺𝖽𝗆𝗂𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗈𝗎𝗍 𝗅𝗈𝗎𝖽.

ESTPs are energetic thrillseekers who are at their best when putting out fires, whether literal or metaphorical. They bring a sense of dynamic energy to their interactions with others and the world around them. They assess situations quickly and move adeptly to respond to immediate problems with practical solutions.

Madison Montgomery - American Horror Story

Billy Hargrove - Stranger Things

Casey Gardner - Atypical

Thor - Thor (Avengers)

Malia Tate - Teen Wolf

Carl Gallagher - Shameless

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