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Est. 1995

A LITTLE CHIT CHAT BEFORE WE RECORD

Growing up in the family of six with four children and as the fourth child and only male child I was spoiled 😂 by my mom most especially. My dad was the opposite, it was like he couldn't stand me, he couldn't stand my spoilt-mummy's-boy ass plus I was scared of him, he was the tough side and my mom was the soft side. I was a big introvert and I didn't understand why it offended people. I've had experiences where people would charge towards me in defense and make it seem we've both had an heated moment before, this only made me more introverted, didn't want none of that bullshit. Since I didn't really speak to a lot of people and because of how reserved I was, I now became really observant. I found human behavior to be very impulsive, their reactions were very abnormal to me, very unreasonable. Uncalled-for questions which would take me a longer time to give an answer, sometimes I don't give answers at all because of how mischievous it may seem. So what I found out to be the cause of this bizarre behavior humans exhibit is

EGO: It's good to have a sense of respect for yourself, to know your self worth but when you want to always dominate people, and walk on people's emotions anytime you like, it's not going to happen. I read in book that said "there is something about the human spirit that can't stand chains (oppression)". So when people lose control of a situation or when they find out that they are not in control of the situation, they tend to throw tantrums. Yes, grown up people throw tantrums and that's the bizarre behaviors that you can't comprehend the cause. Like is this really necessary like wtf.

Lack Of Communication: In all my years here on Earth, no one as ever cared to ask or talk about my social awkwardness due to my introverted nature. People talk but but don't pass any substantial message. Every one just wants to be heard. Sometimes I even get some harsh comments like why don't you talk, why are you so quiet, are you feeling sick, you are not friendly. If there has been a genuine interaction between us, you would know why I am the way I am. That is the essence of communication, genuine questions and genuine statements backed up with emotional intelligence. For some reason this is so hard for a high majority of people to do or maybe it's just pure ignorance /arrogance I don't know. So when people don't communicate or can't communicate properly to arrive at an agreement or a conclusion or maybe they just want their opinions to be the superior regardless, and it doesn't happen, they throw tantrums as defense mechanism to make it look like they didn't take the (L) lose totally just like a child you know what I mean. Once again the cause of the unreasonable behavior in people.

I'm not saying that there won't be differences amongst people but what I'm saying is that we can put more effort into our social lives, in the sense that we can be conscious emotionally and physically. Every one can't be the same as you, people should able to be themselves when they are around you, another man's happiness shouldn't threaten you. When I was younger and introverted, I had friends of different nature, I had the very out going friends, the semi- introverted as friends and I also had introverts as friends just like me. When the outgoing are doing they thing and are being outgoing, I don't try to be like them, but I enjoy seeing them in their element, I get inspiration from that, we all vibe from that. That should also be the same the other way around, when an introvert needs is space, respect that or if you want to come into the space, come with the right energy, come with the right knowledge. Thank you. Please don't forget to reblog/repost this article if it really spoke to you and make it easy for others to see. Also feel free to leave a comment or comments we would like to know what you think about this post.

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