Week 13: Reflection
There is a sense of finality, but I am unsure how to describe how I actually feel. I have never been one for theatrics, drama and cheese, but I canāt help but already feel the incoming nostalgia. This experience hasnāt been all rainbows and roses, but I can certainly see myself looking back on my life at 80 and marking this period of my time as my peak. Total strangers that Iāve bumped into thousands of times at Michigan have become my best friends that Iāve experienced so much with. People with such a different mindset have worked side by side and competed with me. A culture that I felt so distantly related to has become close, where I can speak the language without thinking whereas prior to the program I was terrified to even speak in front of my own family.
I had a wonderful time, but at the same time it needed to end. In this program, I felt like life in the middle portion had become somewhat repetitive, especially as I struggled with my classes. I think the urgency of the end quickly approaching drove us to exponentially increase our outings into the city but had the program been longer, I donāt know if we would have had the drive to. Also, with such a small program, meant seeing the same faces day in and day out, which I think was great to create a community, but at times I could feel the need for some fresh faces, perspectives, and personality.
So what was our final week like? Busy.
Immediately coming back from our weekend trip to Chengdu, we were thrown into the finals week gauntlet. I actually had one final prior to the Chengdu trip so I only had two more finals, one game-day (where we finish our prototype for our design class), and one final report.
At the same time, I still wanted to take in as much of Shanghai as possible. I got my hair permed, visited a cat cafe, went vintage shopping, and tried lots of recommended restaurants. It was refreshing going into the city, strolling around, trying as many sweet treats before our teeth rot, chatting/gossiping with friends, and just enjoying the bustle and charm of the city. The sweltering 100 degree humid heat has definitely been a deterrent to walking around but in this final week, it doesnāt seem to bother me too much knowing it will be the last time in Shanghai with these people. On our last outing, we just happened to bump into a street musician singing some songs. We just happened to listen to his last songā ä»ēē¼āwhich really struck a chord, which wasnāt even A minor. I didnāt understand most of it but one line that I did understand roughly translates to āWho knows who is going to continue to take this road with us, as long as we donāt forget.ā Maybe I translated this wrong, but the interpretation really hit home with me.
I honestly didnāt expect much from this program. I wanted to get my credits and practice my Chinese and not worry about finding an internship. While reading other bloggers talk about their study abroad experience, I honestly thought they were gassing it up for content, but I honestly believe this experience has been life changing. Iām not quite sure what itāll be like back at Michigan as people on the trip all come from different friend groups and have packed schedules back at Michigan.
On a less sentimental note, oh my gosh make sure you prepare an empty suitcase to fill up with stuff from China. I came here with half a checked bag and carry on and Iām leaving with 2 checked bags and one carry on filled to the brim. To be fair, my aunt also packed me 18 kilos worth of snacks to bring back to my family, but still! Also, I had the goal of having one last massive TaoBao purchase (Chinese amazon) before I left and It seems like a lot of other people in the program had the same idea; in the package pick-up area I would always bump into a friend grabbing something from their haul. Everything here is so cheap and the make-up is so high quality! If you come to China I have a few recommendations.
Bars: $$$ Odd Couple (Mr. Miyagi) or $ Perryās
Clubs: INS (2nd or 4th floor) or Fuxing Park in general
Restaurants: Maki (sushi), Xiao er xiang kao å°äŗé¦ē¤ (KBBQ close to campus and 80 yuan/person), Xiaoping ęå¹³é„åŗ (Shanghainese food)
TaoBao Vendors: Mo Kuang (Jeans), Judy Doll (Makeup), Ariseism (fun tops), *not TaoBao but 鹿å„å„ å¤č“øē·č£ has drip for guys*
Cool Streets to walk: Yongkang (Vintage stores), HuaiHai Zhong (croissant gym?)
China and especially Shanghai is an exciting place full of change and innovation, with friendly people! But through talks with the local students and people, you can also see the negatives of China creating an overall well rounded experience. Hopefully these suggestions can jumpstart your trip if you ever hop on your own adventure to Shanghai!
See ya,
Erin Xia
Mechanical Engineering
Shanghai Jiao Tong University Joint Institute












