Can we talk about how pantheon weaves the exploration of grief into every aspect of its story!!!!!! Specifically, the show captures the complex nurture of grief by highlighting the different stages of grief through its individual character and how they progress throughout the story
First, you have Ellen, who represents denial. She lost her husband, David, and somewhat forces acceptance upon herself and her daughter. Even though the story picks up after Davidâs death, we see Ellenâs journey through grief when David comes back. Ellenâs acceptance of her loss is juxtaposed with denial. When her husband comes back, sheâs confused and hurt. She doesnât want to accept heâs back because, well how could she? Sheâs lived two long painful years without him. Sheâs gone through so much, having to accept that heâs gone just for hime to come back. Sheâs terrified with the pain that comes along side embracing him. If she accepts him as alive again, she also has to accept the possibility of losing him again. She has to learn to accept the pain that accompanies love. Even though she eventually accepts David, her denial to his resurrection is still highlighted earlier on in the show.
Thereâs also Chanda. He is a not so subtle representation of the anger associated with grief. He literally burns a building and kills a family because he was blinded by his grief. He was grieving his life, and how he would never live as he once did. All of his actions are propelled by his anger over the loss of his life. He is desperately trying to achieve what he never got the chance to while he was human. Heâs trying to create the world he never got to live in. He canât accept the way things are because heâs still stuck in his anger over his loss.
Next, thereâs Cody. He represents bargaining. He canât accept the loss of his wife, so he does anything minimize and postpone his sadness. He doesnât question or deny Laurie when she comes back like Ellen did with David. Rather he accepts her without a second thought. His actions arenât solely propelled by love, but rather his avoidance to pain. Even before he knew Laurieâs upload was successful, he didnât accept that she was gone. He still felt that she was alive and the same as she had been. When she came back, he did anything for Laurie because he didnât want to lose her or accept that things had changed. He did everything in his power to keep things the same and try to live as he did before. When Laurie is prepared to die to spread her message to the world, he doesnât accept losing her again. Rather, he prepares to ârebootâ her and keep thing the way the are, even though theyâre not.
Next thereâs Capsian, who represents depression. Now the thing heâs mourning is a bit different from the other characters in this analysis. He isnât mourning the physical death of someone, but rather the death of his innocence. He found out he was a clone and that his entire life was a lie. Everything he thought he knew wasnât real, and thatâs terrifying. While he goes through the other stages of grief, the show draws attention to the depression part of grief through Caspain. He quickly recognizes the true extent of his loss but still struggles to accept and cope with it. Thus, he is easily manipulated by Pope and throws himself into curing the flaw because to him itâs a way to avoid the looming hopelessness of his situation. Heâs lost interest and passion for the things he once cared about, and focuses on what he feels he has to do. He feels hopeless, and desperately trying to cure the flaw is his way of trying to reclaim agency. If he solves the problem, he regains some control over the hopelessness he feels.
Finally, there Maddie, who represents the complex journey to acceptance. Throughout the show, she experiences all the stages of grief. The show focuses on her journey to accepting the loss of her father and the life she once had. We watch her go through the stages of grief at her own pace and eventually come to terms with her loss. We watch her grow into the person that can eventually let her father pass. We watch her move forward despite her loss. She still is in unimaginable pain because of the death of her father, but she still keeps moving.
While all of the characters experience all the stages of grief, it feels like the show focuses on specific stages with specific characters. Pantheon displays how grief is complicated and messy, and not just some straight line. It highlights non-linear growth and how character progress and regress throughout their respective journeys with grief. It shows how grief isnât something that it easily overcome, but rather a long and exhausting process. It shows through its main cast how each stage of grief is its own journey and hurtle to overcome. Pantheon demonstrates that even after you accept loss fully, it doesnât take away from the immense pain loss causes you to feel. All you can do is keep moving forward.
