#dualcom

Of course you’re not going to just give in immediately, he knows that, but that doesn’t mean he’s going to entertain the notion that you’re an adult

You’d cry a lot in the beginning and say things that made him a bit sad, “Let me go. I hate you, I don’t wanna be here, I wanna go home” but he knows you don’t really mean it. You’re just scared, new places are hard for little baby brains to handle “Oh I know baby, shh shh… Papa’s here, it’s okay bub” you wiggle and hit but he just holds you down in his lap and against his chest. “No no, we don’t hit baby, that’s not nice, okay?”

He doesnt act like your fighting and attempts to escape are at all intentional, you just dont know better. “Ah-ah! Don’t run away from Daddy please. If you wanna go outside, you have to ask nicely and hold papa’s hand.” “Let me go! Please I just wanna go home I don’t wanna be here! Let me go!” “I know you wanna see all the pretty flowers and birds, but you have to be a good boy. It’s dangerous if you wander off without me, bub”

Even through all the crying and screaming his voice is soft and he’s gentle. Overtime you just stop saying that stuff, he’s heard it a thousand times already anyways. There’s no need to pretend to be small, he’ll treat you as such anyways and it’s getting easier to feel yourself slip. Tired from crying as he holds you against him and you lean your head on his shoulder while he rocks you.

There’s not much to do, so you color and arrange your toys even if a few days earlier you said you’d rather stare at a wall than act like a baby. He doesn’t comment on any of those changes either, he just says how pretty your picture is when he comes to check on you. If you decide to not play tomorrow, embarrassed by him noticing, he just picks you up and sets you on his lap while he reads (out loud, of course, babies should be read to often).

Do not feel responsible for what happened to someone else.

You are allowed to play. You are allowed to have safe and consensual sex, and most importantly, whatever you practice in the bedroom is not their business.

i watched in real time as age regression began to become more widespread, and people began to use ageplay communities as their scapegoat towards normalcy. “i’m an age regressor, but i’m not like one of those FREAKS who sexualizes it” or “age regression and abdl are Completely different things with absolutely no overlap at all.” going so far as to make the default age regression flag specifically the “sfw age regression flag” (in what way is being age regressed Safe For Work? think about the terms you are using for two seconds) half of the age regression communities saying not to interact if you even Sometimes participate in kink, or if you’re even supportive of people who do. demanding people keep it “child friendly” completely avoiding any conversation about how loaded of a term that is to be using with no elaboration.

i’ve seen people who are into completely nonsexual age regression get ostracized for wearing diapers while regressed. because it’s “too kink-adjacent.” call out posts are written about them. there are blocklists for regressors who are too weird, too kinky, too “adult,” and so many of the people being called out are perma-regressors! people who are always regressed in some way, completely ostracized from their own community for the crime of having an adult body and adult body needs.

i’ve seen almost every resource on age regression refer to overlap between age regression and kink be described as “inherently traumatizing,” completely ignoring the wide variety of ways people can experience age regression, and especially, even if you Do believe it was “inherently traumatizing” for someone in littlespace to have sex, i don’t think i have ever seen any manor of exception made for middle regressors, probably because i frankly have never seen anyone ever acknowledge middle regressors in any sort of meaningful way. (this one’s for you middle regressors, i see you!)

it is totally fine to experience age regression in whatever way you experience it. i’m not saying you Have to get sexual about it. you don’t even have to be ok with seeing it. but you do have to be okay with the knowledge that there are kinky age regressors and they aren’t doing anything wrong. you do not get to excuse your puritanical worldview with your age regression. frankly, some of you need to be really unpacking what you think it means to be a child.

Here's a little shoutout to hypersexual littles, or tinies who have sexual thoughts or urges while regressed, or those who's sexual urges get stronger when regressed. There's nothing wrong about your body having needs. You aren't yucky for them. You aren't evil for them, either, I promise.

Whether you are comfortable or uncomfortable with these thoughts, remember that you aren't alone! You're loved 'n cherished and just as valid as everyone else!