#drunk sol

I wanna kiss em

Do u really think i'd be posting this if I hadn't drank at LEAST a few shots of tequila??? :P

(OH is this sarcasm or genuine I honeslty cannot tell rn- imma treat it as real!!)

ADVICE!

IF YOU’RE NOT HAVING FUN, STOP.

Seriously.

If fandom has become toxic for you, if writing fic stresses you out, if you’re panicking over chapters not being ‘good enough’ - you’re doing it wrong, and you need a break.

Fandom and fanfic and fanart are a place for FUN. They’re a place to escape the limitations of the real world, to make-believe and pretend as much as you want to - to lift stress away from you. If these places are then CAUSING you stress, you need to do the following:

1) Block the sources of distress (if external)

2) Block the ‘positive pressure’ - ie, the nice people asking you to update. Sometime disappointing people you care about is the worst feeling but - you’re a person too! You deserve rest! Get that battery recharged!

3) DISENGAGE FROM THE FANDOM. Fandom is entitled and toxic as HELL sometimes, and at the end of the day the only thing you can do is take away a target. It’s a lot easier to write if you don’t know what tumblr/twitter/social media think about X-type of fic being ‘cringe’ or etc.

However, if NONE of those things work - leave the fandom. Come back later, when everything is calm. Come back when you feel safe and happy enough to *create*.

At the end of the day, creating fic and art is time-consuming. It’s tiring.

And if you’re doing it when you don’t love it anyway, it’s only going to be THAT much more exhausting.

@cheesy-french-fries ....GOOBER ILYYYYYY

I 

I did it. 

I bought my first binder from @gc2b 

I-I’m so nervous, ah. I used paypal though? so my parents wouldn’t be able to tell on my card?