If love is a choice, then they have the capacity to love after the "in love" obsession has died and they have returned to the real world. That kind of love begins with an attitude-a way of thinking. Love is the attitude that says, "I am married to you, and I choose to look out for your interests... ...Love is a choice and cannot be coerced.
Chapman, Gary. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts. Chicago: Northfield Publishing, 2004.










