#dontdatehim

#1. The married/separated guy

For obvious reasons.. duh - he’s married, and even if he is separated still does not give him a green light to get emotionally attached to another woman. There is 75% chance that he will reconcile with his wife because of the emotional, physical, financial and child-related attachments he has. Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule, but never for once think that you will win without a fight. Never get emotionally, physically or financially attached to someone who is already attached to someone else.

#2. The “I’m not ready for a committed relationship” guy

Men with much personality have a very magnetic energy, and it’s easy to fall for a guy who says and does the right thing. But the minute you turn up the heat, and it gets a little steamy and he utters the phrase, “I am not ready to be in a committed relationship,” turn the oven, grab your jacket and hit the pavement. I am not saying that you shouldn’t ever talk to him again, but do not think that you can change his mind. Some women who hear this from men automatically think they can change him by being all “extra” and showing that they can be excellent catches, but all it is to him is good sex, good company and a great time. You may have them physically, but you don’t have their heart and soul. If a guy tells you that they aren’t ready for a relationship, stop giving him the relationship perks by trying to play potential wifey.

3# The mixed signals guy

These are the worst. These type of men are affectionate, perfect gentlemen, can cook, clean, and make love to you as if their life depended on it. But don’t get comfortable because they weapon is timing. They know how to be consistent and when to pull the rug from under you and start sending mixed signals. One day, he can be loving you, and then you don’t hear from him for a week. OR….when you two are alone, he’s this attentive, affectionate, wanting to do everything for you dude. But, in public, he puts you in the “friend” zone.. It sounds like a bipolar arrangement, and I would consistently be gone by by.

4# The Brag About My Sex Game Guy

In any “getting to know you” phase, the sex topic will probably come up sooner than later. I’m very open to the conversation because I enjoy talking about the emotional connection and it’s nice to know what men feel and what ties them to a great sexual experience. But, when a man you barely know turns a healthy grown-up conversation into bragging on their lick and dick game, it will make a woman curious to know if he is really that good, or women tap into their inner brains and size the dude up, draw a conclusion and become uninterested. It happened to me on a date.I had just implied to Ugmo that I didn’t care for the bragging on the dick game, but he went there anyway. He kind of grossed me out.

#5 The “Good on Paper” Guy