#do something constructive

And I don’t make it about me. I’ve not even really been in the fandom for weeks. I asked you politely in DM for both of us to keep our names off each other’s blogs. You chose to ignore me and post about how you won’t read my DM. You keep bringing up my name on your blog when I’ve been silent regarding you for over a year now, this past week being the exception.

I really want to stop giving a complete shit about you, but I made this exception to set the record straight at what you didn’t do. I won’t hesitate to call out another lie and falsehood from you about me, if you try so again. But I really, really don’t want to give effort to that venture.

Please, get a hobby or something and stop policing what other people put in the tags. Unless it’s REALLY off topic, REALLY hurtful, or unrelated to the topic entirely, just mind your own damn business or speak to them privately instead of making a stink about it publicly.

Even still, it’s not really your job or your place to tell people what to post and where.

Okay, feminism.

I am a female and support equality between women and men and that there should not be a double standard. Okay? Yes, we should be treated the same.

However, please stop going to the extreme of extremes and leaving nearly every post about it. It becomes your excuse for complaining about everything. We get that you are all for it and it is respected but when you rant about it, it loses its impact and significance.

Instead of ranting about how society is sexist and stacked up against women, why not try to come up with something more constructive such as a learning guide or useful things that can be used to teach the youth of today and the future how to properly conduct themselves.

Not just for the guys, but for the girls too.

You cannot demand men act a certain way but have nothing for the other sex as well or it is also creating another double standard.

Why is that so hard to do? Anyone who’s tried to tell or advise someone has either done a poor job of doing so or is yelled at for trying to help.

If I tell someone maybe they should wear longer shorts, they get mad at me for telling them what to do and it’s their body and that men should not look at their bodies in a sexual way because of it. Ever think maybe me (not a man) might not want to see young ladies thinking the only way to look cool is by wearing some shorts that honestly look like they shrunk in the wash? (Modesty isn’t a crime you know).  

If I say pipe down about all the extreme feminist posts, they all think I’m trying to shut them down and silence them and the freedom of speech and blah blah blah. Well no, I’m just asking to turn down the volume on a blaring speaker that we can’t escape.

If I was to scream out to everyone that Banana’s are a great source of potassium and repeatedly alluded to it and never stopped talking about it and writing about it etc, people get tired of hearing about it and are not going to want to listen. What I am saying is true, but because I continuously rant about that fact, my voice becomes ignored.

So, those of you who have time to continuously tell us how horrible society is and complain about how men treat women, do something constructive about it.