if it’s any consolation, in my experience when you have a good grasp of how you’re feeling and feeling frustrated of where you want to be and knowing how difficult it feels to get there, it helps me to know that empirically, it just takes a lot of time and repetition to get anywhere you want with yourself, and it sucks so I feel but it’s comforting to know there’s a way and it works

yeah, i totally get that. and like, logically, i know that i’ve come really far and i’m a lot better than i used to be, so i know i am getting better, it’s just hard to maintain perspective when i feel like i don’t have any proof of it, y’know? 

Where

djmonn replied to your post“boop there is a soccer anime out”

Wassit called

Its called Days, find it here http://kissanime.to/Anime/Days-TV 

what is this media and should i consume it, there’s like nothing with persian characters that arent terrorists lol (hell only person of interest and i dont even watch that show)

it’s a ya novel duology based on 1001 nights, the wrath and the dawn and the rose and the dagger by renee ahdieh and while i personally can’t speak for its accuracy in culture (seems kind of pan-arab to me but idk), etc, it does take place in a country called “khorasan” bordered by “parthia” (which i know are a direct reference to iran) and the map is a crudely drawn overlay of our middle east centering just east of the arabian peninsula!

SAME! it was dumb.

i just felt like????

they could have left that out, and the story would have wrapped up nicely????

maybe i’ve been spoiled by Pacific Rim and Mad Max bc at this point seeing a hetero kiss at the end of a movie just doesn’t affect me at all. i mean ever since i watched the first Terminator as a wee bab (literally i’ve been watching this movie p much since birth) i have loved sarah/reese!!! they are so beautiful!!! their whirlwind romance was fucking destined!!!! the fate of the world relied on it!!!!

and in this latest film we have a chance to see what it would be like if they met as equals, if they had time to really build a relationship on respect and cooperation. what it’d be like if the fate of the world DIDN’T depend on them fucking. and i think we were getting a pretty good look at that?

but then the kiss at the end, the sudden jump into a relationship that is still being built... it just felt like.... unimpressive?

8) welcome to party culture. it’s pretty gross. i’ve done this a few times to get my guy friends into parties, because if there isn’t too many girls to 1 guy ratio the party gets a very creepy vibe because it’s all thirsty manhoes.

djmonn replied to your post: so there’s a party at the south end of...

it’s also creepy that as a girl you can go anywhere you want never really sat with me right. that’s why i prefer going to people’s kickbacks or just hanging out with my own buddies :) less grossness

Right??? I think it’s bc there’s this overarching vibe that you’re only allowed to be there because there are all these thirsty guys who want you around. 

i dont understand ur url

it’s a taylor swift song lmao

reynaromana replied to your post “aangisdead is dead”

for a 100 years like hte original aang

i’ve seen it around but i guess i’ll start now 8)

It’s so gooooood, I swear. It’s been ages since I’ve sincerely rooted for a protagonist of a manga but Midoriya is a precious gem who must be protected

like progamming?