My head is spinning!!!
The chances of going through a divorce at the same time as your best friend are pretty slim...
Well I am doing just that! Don’t get me wrong we are both going through very different situations but none the less we are both in our early 30′s & finding ourselves in a situation we never would have expected & well it sucks!
It’s interesting when I first started going through this I felt very alone. I am 32 no children and my marriage has full on fallen apart right before my eyes. I was so focused on making my husband happy and trying to start a family I never noticed what was going on right in front of me! My husband had an affair for about a year as far as I know. I have felt so ashamed and embarrassed that I had failed at this. I have come to realize that not just one but quite a few people I know were also in my situation. No one goes through the same thing when it comes to divorce. We are all in different shoes but I would say what we have in common is we all know we are starting over and trying to figure out how to move on!
So many people just don’t understand how much the D word sucks & I just want to make sure that no one out there feels alone! You are not alone! Lot’s of people think they are marrying the love of their life and it turns out the person is actually a selfish insecure person & you will be better off with out them in the long run! I know right now it seems like life is over but trust me 6 months in I am getting stronger & realizing what was I ever thinking! I hope you follow me on this crazy journey!
