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I never said that he was pan as a way of exploring sexuality, I said he might be pan as a way of avoiding the need to strictly label himself as gay. Please do not spread false word.
but by "not strictly labelling himself" is setting pan as some sort of default sexuality??? thus invalidating people who are actually pan??
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I am literally the same age as you, I was in no way talking down, I just know people learn more as they age and so you'll learn too. Also, you've never heard of nature vs. nurture have you?
*brings up how im still young* "no i wasnt talking down to u wtf"
and you still havent learned about internalized homophobia yet, have you?
Except I don't because I was raised by people who taught me never to judge people based on who they loved and I have always hated how homophobic and misogynistic this country is. Calling me internally homophobic is a really shitty thing to do, but I'll let it slide because you're young and have yet to learn.
but who u are has nothing to do with who raised you???? and you are really homophobic??? and it is internalized homophobia??? wanna know what a really shitty thing to do is??? do nothing about it and make no attempts to change. also another really shitty thing to do: talk down to someone bc of their age
There is literally no way I can be homophobic, seeing as I am pan and transgender to boot, me being homophobic would be really counter productive. And you really aren't understanding the fact that you continuing to say it's queer erasure when it's not is damaging for people who identify with Dirk in not wanting to label themselves but preferring the male gender more.
have u heard of internalized misogyny??? when women are sexist to other women??? yeah well youve got a bad case of internalized homophobia
Saying it's queer erasure can be harmful though because it isn't erasing the fact that he's queer at all. I'm not saying he's pan just for straight relationships, I'm saying he could be pan because he didn't want to label himself and pansexual is more free flowing that the strict definition of being gay. Can you at least understand that?
but theres nothing to understand? youre erasing his identity and are just as bad and homophobic as the other two lmao
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I honestly am having so much trouble understanding your thought process. Headcanonning him as aro/ace or pan doesn't make him less gay? Like, ace people can still only be romantically attracted to men, and it doesn't make them not gay?
yeha but i never said anything about him not being aro or ace??? he could be homoromantic ace or aromantic gay. i personally dont agree with that headcanon but i never said they werent possible.
however making him pan poses a huge problem. dirk strider is only attracted to males. thinking of him as anything else is queer erasure.
How is it homophobia to say that they could be other sexualities that are still among the queer spectrum? I am honestly baffled by this. Dirk could be bi or pan but with a preference for men, it happens.
yeah but youre still erasing his identity as a gay person. it doesnt matter what sexuality u replace it with, youre still replacing it.
Except they weren't? They were saying he could be other sexualities, like pan, aro, ace or demi. Like, how did you get homophobic from that?
theyre saying hes not gay. thats erasing his identity. its textbook homophobia
