hi! so i recently discovered that im agender and im a really feminine afab but trying to become a more masculine nb. Right now I go by Lorelei because it fits my overall "cute and charming personality" (descript. from friend) but I feel like I should go by Camden or Voss instead because those are more GN names? Advice please?
Hello anon, thanks for the question.
Whatever name you use should be whatever feels right and comfortable for you, whether that name is gender-neutral or feminine or masculine. You're not obligated to go by a more gender-neutral name just because you're agender unless you feel that that's what's right for you.
I think all three names you listed sound great and I would just say to pick whichever one you think sounds best for you.
