I know Dirk has the rep of being the one who jumps headfirst into the friendship but also, when you actually step back:
What Dirk’s context for the friendship was:
• on first day, run into a copy of yourself who is clearly temporally displaced; he is with a guy and he points at the guy and says “that’s your best friend!! Here’s his address!!”
• track the guy down and engage him in case, knowing that a future version of you sees him as a best friend and he at very least will be present when you are where you need to be in the future
• slowly get to know him and form a friendship with him based on more than just being informed that he’s going to be your friend
Whereas the context for Todd was:
• guy breaks into your house and starts stalking you
• tell him to leave you alone. He doesn’t lol
• spend 2-3 days around him nearly getting killed in increasingly gory ways due to his bullshit
• go on a road trip and literally tell him your deepest darkest secret and lifebond with him like an otter