#dfmg asks

I’m glad you’re having a good day. Happy Wednesday !

You make that sound like it’s a bad thing??? Having to snuggle to keep warm, having to get daddy to fetch extra soft blankets, asking for more warm milk in your bottle, footed sleepers, mittens, cozy hats omggggggggggg we neeeeeed Aircon NOOOOWWWW!!!!

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lol, happy Tuesday my Tuesday lurker, the weather is mighty fine here in the sunny uk !

-We brits love to moan - and we are most definitely moaning about this heatwave we are having atm ☀️ 🥵

- Why do so many people go on anon to send asks (especially when they are just sweet messages with no hidden agenda)

Hey 👋

My gosh, that was a few years ago omg!!!

I am betting our ‘normal conversation’ was out in the smoking area?

I never truly understood events, the non sexual aspects of adults colouring, playing childish games etc - I only ever wanted to have ADULT conversations with ADULTS! I genuinely got told off for having an adult conversation with a little, I kid you not!

The reason I asked about the smoking area because it was the ONE place where all dropped their guard, all forget they were pretending to be little, and reverted back to their far more interesting adult selves - I don’t want to be rude or diss people’s little sides, but I just don’t really get it lol - we are all adults, and it’s the adult sides of people I want to get to know before being Daddy like ya know?

So yeah, that’s why we had a normal conversation- because that’s the easy part, that’s what I do every day with people - my Daddy / dom side is a special part of my personality I reserve for special people- it’s why it is special to me.

We are all different we all have our own views, these are just mine :)

Aw shucks,

Thank you ☺️

This old man doesn’t get much of any kind of attention these days so to get not one but TWO asks in one day has filled my heart with the hope that maybe ……just maybe….. it was worth not deleting this account, and starting up all those dead end, ghosted conversations :)

Hi 👋

Thanks for the ask!

Simple answer, no.

This is a kink for me, it all revolves around sexual arousal, and I’m straight, so yeah, sadly, men don’t push any of the buttons I like pushed.

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I think it’s important to respect others wishes especially because there is no way of restricting who sees your posts on here apart from blocking (unlike X, Fetlife, and instagram) it does however make it harder to make this a personal account. I try hard to show my authentic self, while trying to keep my anonymity- but it means you have to be flexible and understand that not all are gonna get what I’m into - or see things the way I do.

“What is sexy for one can be immensely triggering for another, especially without context! “

‘Consent is everything to me - I genuinely couldn’t get off on any of my kinks without clear honest open consent - I have a very strong moral compass but it’s more than just that - consent to me is HOT - to know I turn someone else on is sexy as fuck - to turn someone off is a turn off for me ….’

I wonder how common that is?

As for me and H….thanks, it’s a head fuck, it’s impossible to explain to others and it’s frustrating for us both, but life most definitely would be a lot worse (but kinkier) without her 😝

Hey 👋

Firstly thank you for reaching out, it’s not always easy confronting people and you did it in a very kind and thoughtful way!

I’m sorry some of my recent posts upset you, I took the reblogged post down straight away as I can see it definitely could be seen as a step way too far for most, and I have flagged the feeding chair post as sexual and contains violence.

Look, I’m a big teddy bear, I could NEVER be mean to a non consenting person, gosh - I can remember one of my first events I went to - I saw a girl screaming ‘stop it Daddy stop it’ as he spanked and spanked her and it took every ounce of self control to not barge in, kick the shit out of him and just hold her until she felt safe….lol - my point is - what is one persons kink is another persons worst nightmare, and we CAN NOT just say well ‘this is my page I can post what I want’ - I have a responsibility to consider others when I post stuff.

I wrote a silly long section explaining how fantasy and reality are often totally separate (for me at least) but I think I’ve made my point -

Thanks for speaking up, I hope I have put your mind at some ease, and never be afraid to stand up for what you believe (as long as it’s done in a polite thoughtful way)

Thanks 🙏

You know what, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a post about older littles being valid - and it’s a very important thing to stress, that, being little or wanting to be made to act little has absolutely NOTHING to do with being young - good god, for me it’s totally the opposite, seeing a mature woman with a career and years of life experience wanting to act little or be made to feel little is far far more exciting than a twenty year old that can probably still remember being in diapers! 😊

Sure, being in my 40’s, I have little in common with someone half my age, but, even when I was twenty, I fantasised about older women in diapers and forcing them to act small….