Life's getting real. The time for his deployment is coming closer and closer. It doesn't matter how many times we've said goodbye, it never gets easier.
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Life's getting real. The time for his deployment is coming closer and closer. It doesn't matter how many times we've said goodbye, it never gets easier.

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Hi my names Sammie sorry if this seems weird but my boyfriend was skyping with me today and he started crying and found out he was being deployed soon and I just broke down I'm absolutely terrified :( is there anything you can tell me about it? I'm sorry I'm just super scared.
You’re completely fine. First off, deployment is a terrifying thing, especially your first one. There’s just so much unknown about it. So it’s normal to break down. When I found out my husband was getting deployed I did.
The time zone is different, so your schedules will more than likely be flopped. He’ll be waking up when you go to bed and vice versa. It’ll take some getting used to. Also, talk time will be limited. He may be able to Skype you daily (or almost daily), or he may only get to call or send an email once in a while. It all depends on where he’ll be at. But don’t let that discourage you. Take advantage of the emails, IMs and phone calls. And sometimes when you don’t get a call, you’ll get scared something happened. Just remember sometimes no news is good news. COMS blackouts are also a thing. When they occur, troops will have no contact back home for hours or days. Write him letters. It’ll let him know what’s happening in your life even when you can’t talk to him. Plus troops love getting mail while deployed.Â
Deployment is a stressful thing. So sometimes tensions will get high and you both will get angry or upset or sad. But that’s ok. Just don’t let it ruin things. Deployments can make or break your relationship. So let it strengthen it. Focus on positives. The days may seem to inch by, but deployments end.Â
Remember OPSEC. This is VERY important. Don’t post troop movements, times or locations online or talk about it over the phone. It can endanger the troops.Â
Stay busy and be active. Use the time to learn something new. Just take it a day at a time. The first couple of weeks are always the hardest.
Although it’s scary, remember you’re so strong. You both can make it through this and your relationship will be stronger than ever, if you allow it to be. It’s okay to cry. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. And if you need to talk, I’m always here.Â
I hope this helped! If not, feel free to write back.
Love Always,
Scarlett
To all those whose significant other is deployed
I just wanted to take a moment and remind you that YOU ARE STRONG. The nights may seem endless, but I can promise, they will end. Remember that it's ok to cry. It doesn't make you weak. It makes you human. Also when you feel like you can't take it anymore, remember that they miss you just as much as you miss them. They'll be home soon.Â
IF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK, CONTACT ME. I'M HERE TO LISTEN AND HELP. I've been through the same things and I did it alone. But I want you to know, that you Aren't alone.Â
Today I got woken up by the mailman honking his horn indicating he had a package for us. So I go downstairs and it's this big box filled with 4 gift bags. One for each of us. Mine had this super nice scarf, a notebook, candy, and some Bath & Body Works stuff. Â Mom's had a bunch of magazines and B&BW stuff. Dad's had gift cards, prayer books, candy, and popcorn stuff. Nick's had a UofM hoodie and headphones (couldn't have been more perfect.) We had absolutely no clue who sent all this to us, even with the card, but we finally figured it out and it was a girl down state who is writing a thesis on how Deployments effect families (I think) and she got our picture and story (mom had sent this stuff to her), and magically ended up with our address and sent us all this stuff. I could not be more thankful for strangers to do this out of compassion and support. It really means a lot.