#dedue headcanons

I agree, he does need more love! He's such a sweet man, he deserves the world.

Thank you for asking, I hope its not too short for you.

Dedue! What a sweetie <3 And definitely the only Blue Lion I haven't written about here yet, so let's change that~

Dedue (FE3H) x GN Reader Headcanons

SFW (not sfw below the cut)

- Dedue's love language is both a blessing and a curse for our lovely shy Reader. On the one hand, it's a relief that he's not going to smother you with half-sincere praise or extravagant gifts; but on the other, as his feelings for you deepen, he instead just wants to be around you more often, keep an eye on you and quietly ensure your safety and comfort. It can be easy to read this as him "just being friendly," so there will be a loooong phase of mutual pining- him just floundering to come up with a way to be more forthcoming with you, and you assuming at every turn that there's no way someone as put-together, serious, and not to mention handsome has fallen for you.

- One gesture that may finally make it through to you is that he makes a habit of cutting one bloom of your favorite flower from the greenhouse and gifting it to you, always remembering to bring you a fresh one when the last begins to wilt. Finally. once he'd decided that he can't risk allowing his true feelings to go unsaid, he brings you to the gardens and presents you with a full bouquet of those same flowers- "I am not skilled with words, but I have realized I would come to regret it if you never heard the truth of my feelings. That truth is that each time I've gifted you this flower, it was to say that I have fallen in love with you."

- He's insistent of course that he doesn't expect you to return his affections, and that he believes it would only cause you undue stress and persecution to be with someone of his background- and when you tell him that you do in fact return his feelings, that you'd hoped to be with him for some time, it takes a long while and a lot of reassurance for him to believe that you're truly willing to accept certain risks to be together. When all is said and done, and you're both a quietly flustered mess, grappling with excitement and joy and relief and a little anxiety, it all feels so overwhelming and too good to be true.

- After this, your relationship is a wonderfully sweet and supportive one. He's a quiet and sometimes insecure type himself, so he very much empathizes with your feelings, and does all that he can to reassure you of the depth and strength of his affections. Spending time with him is endlessly soothing and reassuring, whether you're helping him with chores in the greenhouse, or maybe he's teaching you a few things in the kitchen, or perhaps the two of you are simply lying in bed together with a book. Now and then you catch him watching you with a hint of a smile that shows more in his eyes than on his lips, and he'll frequently run a hand along your back or kiss your hair without a word, just to assure you that he's there and he adores you.

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Dedue

Dedue has a lingerie kink. Seeing his s/o in beautiful lingerie is one of his favorite things in the world, but never ask him to tear it off of you because he’ll refuse every time. That shit costs a lot of money and he’d much rather take it slow, like he’s unwrapping a beautiful present.

Doesn’t want a delicate flower - wants someone who can handle themselves outside of the bedroom and who knows what they want inside the bedroom.

Contrary to popular belief, Dedue... is not really that big of a fan of rough sex? It’s okay sometimes, but he’d much rather something slow and passionate that overwhelms the senses. Gets a little out of rhythm towards his orgasm but he’s pretty good about consistency

This man is so strong, I can’t even begin to describe. If you want him to take over then all you have to do is ask, especially if you’re shy about what you want. He can pick you up and press you against the wall without his knees ever buckling. Want to have sex against the dresser? On the floor? In the shower? Yes, absolutely, he’s super into it.

BUT, he will not have sex where you might get caught by someone else. He’ll have a room double locked and put a chair against the doorknob if he’s particularly paranoid at the moment. He doesn’t want anyone to think less of you if they see the two of you together, even though you constantly tell him that you don’t care.

ya girl has been ill but I promise i haven’t abandoned this blog

Please don’t be embarrassed! I am also a thicc hoe so I totally understand

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Felix: you train almost constantly and hate that you somehow can’t keep the extra weight off of you, and there are many hours when you just lock yourself up in your room and stew in your own frustration and sadness. Felix doesn’t let you wallow, though. He’ll drag you out of your room to face the rest of the world and, if you want, he’ll drag you back to the training ground. He doesn’t care how you look - but if there’s something you want to change about yourself, he’ll do his best to help you get there.

Claude: ‘More to love’ is part of his religion, okay. Loves to squeeze you!!! Like literally all the time!!! He thinks you’re like one of those thick bodied angels in a Rubens painting and my god Claude would absolutely worship your body. Hates that you feel insecure about yourself, though, because Claude is all about body positivity. He knows that he has a pretty lithe physique, but just because you don’t doesn’t mean you can’t absolutely destroy him with your bare hands and he loves that.

Bonus! Ashe: Ashe is such a gentle soul, he barely even notices your size. He just thinks that you’re the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen and if you have a little extra weight??? Well, he’s only bothered if you’re bothered by it.