“Sharing involves a plurality of subjects, but it also involves more than mere summation or aggregation: there also has to be a special kind of integration. Experiential sharing isn’t merely individual experience plus reciprocal knowledge; rather, what we are after is a situation in which the experiences of the individuals are co-regulated and constitutively bound together, that is, where the individuals only have experiences they have in virtue of their reciprocal relation to each other.” Zahavi, Dan. (2014) Self and Other: Exploring Subjectivity, Empathy, and Shame. p.245