Dahabina’s family never wanted her to marry before the age of 25. Fatima’s family pushed her to get marry after the age of 21. I lost relationships that I am glad I lost due to my parents desire for me to get married after 25. Fatima was just waiting for the type of guy who could chill every time she wanted to cry. Something her parents had no patience for. I don’t know what would have happened if I was in Fatima’s shoes. Maybe I would’ve been depressed or miserable. I’m grateful for what my parents did I was allowed to be child free and finish my education without any hindrance. Fatima didn’t have the freedom that I had to do so. Sometimes in the past I used to wish I was in Fatima’s shoes but at this point in time I’m glad I’m not. Maybe she wishes to be in my shoes though. Outlandish spoke to a large group of sisters that I know. I’m waiting for someone to sing about me though. Maybe I have to sing about myself or maybe some man will speak on my struggle. Either way I’m good no matter what. I pray Fatima is good too that’s my sister in Islam after all.