Hey guys. I wanna address something that I'm sure many of you know by now but, ya know.. I kinda wanna put this here cause I don't want it to be a reoccurring issue.
I know many of you love Dabi and love talking to Dabi and you should know by now that he really enjoys and loves talking to you guys too. He puts so much effort into his responses for you because he truly enjoys the time spent talking to you.
But!
Something that puts us both in an awkward position, is stuff like jealousy (genuine jealousy) and being pushy. Don't get me wrong, Dabi is a very jealous person himself, but he would never stop you guys from interacting with other charanons, yanno? Like. He respects your boundaries and would expect the same from you.
If you send an ask that could potentially make others feel bad, or if you publicize our private sessions without permission, or you genuinely become upset at Dabi for not being there in time for whatever reason (even if you're joking) it puts us both in a weird situation. Not only does this make him uncomfortable, but now he feels like you're emotionally dumping on him and it does put stress on him and I.
We love being there for you, of course, but sometimes we need to be there for ourselves, and obviously he doesn't want to be pressured by your attachment to him.
He's a villain, for one. He won't coddle you if you're putting too much pressure on him.
This also goes without saying but- please be careful with the things you send as it can be potentially triggering.
Also!
This applies to all charanons you talk to. You never know what mods/charanons are going through and dumping your emotional baggage on them might make them feel compelled to push you away and draw harsh lines. Also, being mad at them for not getting back to you quick enough is also toxic. We are real people with jobs, life, issues, trauma, etc, just like you.
I have a lot of love to give, and I'm pretty laid back and patient, but I will put my foot down if I'm uncomfortable.
TLDR: We don't owe you anything nor are we required to interact with you. Thank you for understanding.
Ah. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and if you respect our boundaries as we respect yours, then we can continue to have fun.
Love
Reaper and Touya x
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