Could we hear the story of meera swapping Bahadurs gender? OwO the reason I ask is because there are not many female skeleton bitties. I don't know any of them. 0w0 sorry if that is weird^^;
I actually wasn’t home for it, Key and I found out about everything after the fact, but from my understanding, Bahadur actually didn’t really notice anything different until trying to speak. Apparently, female Bahadur has the opposite problem male Bahadur has and has a very hard time speaking louder than a whisper versus struggling to speak softer than a full bellow, and the effort of speaking at a more audible level gave him one hell of a headache.
I ALSO HAD A VERY SORE THROAT AND COULDN’T TALK AT ALL FOR ALMOST A WHOLE DAY, IT WAS VERY UNPLEASANT!
AH-! Bahadur! Don’t startle me like that!
APOLOGIES, CELL, I THOUGHT YOU HEARD ME COMING UP!
It’s okay, bud, you didn’t mean anything by it. I guess I just wasn’t paying attention. Uh, did you want to say anything further about the experience?
WELL, I SUPPOSE MY ONLY REAL THOUGHTS ON THE MATTER ARE WHY SO MANY HUMANS SEEM TO PUT SO MUCH IMPORTANCE ON SOMETHING THAT DIDN’T SEEM TO CHANGE ANYTHING! FEMALE, MALE OR OTHER, I AM STILL WHO I AM!
Yeah, I know what you mean. Human society puts a lot of pressure on enforcing the so-called gender binary, and lots of people get hurt just for wanting to be accepted as themselves. Like myself for example.
AH, YES, YOU EXPLAINED THIS ONCE! YOU PREFER A PARTICULAR SET OF PRONOUNS, BUT VERY FEW PEOPLE USE THEM BECAUSE YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE IS A PARTICULAR WAY!
Mmmhm. I’m luckier than a lot of people who go by they/them pronouns, I can look very androgynous with how I dress. But I still get people using she/her just because I have curves to my body and have long hair, matching the societal stereotype.
IT SEEMS TO ME THAT IT WOULD BE A LOT LESS HARMFUL AND TROUBLING FOR EVERYONE IF PEOPLE JUST ACCEPTED THE CHANGES AND MOVED ON WITH THEIR LIVES! IT ISN’T LIKE THE PEOPLE WHO DON’T FIT INTO THE BINARY ARE HURTING ANYONE, THEY JUST WANT TO BE THEMSELVES!
Thank you, Bahadur. If only the rest of humanity were as understanding and accepting as you are.