When a military s/o posts a status or posts to a military s/o support page about how their boyfriend/fiance/husband has been gone for x and they miss him blah blah, there is always another wife who has to say, well, mine's been gone for xx so put your big girl panties on and deal with it. Now of course, no one likes to see depressing whiny status' all the time or listen to someone complain constantly about missing someone, because 99% they're in the same boat. Sometimes I really want to say so you miss your s/o and you miss your s/o and you're trying to one up each other on who has it worse?! When did your life turn into a competition? Quit your bitching ladies. If you don't have anything nice to say scroll on down. Jeez!