Taking to my own post so Iām not responding on OPās
1. Being ace isnātĀ ānot wanting to fuckā itās not feeling sexual attraction and yes in fact acephobia exists.
2a. I didnāt compare oppressions, oppressions canāt be compared. Doesnāt matter if itās acephobia v transphobia, or lesbophobia v transphobia, or racism v transphobia. Not how that shit works. Didnāt mention any single fucking thing like it.Ā
I said OP was like transphobic parents in trying to pull theĀ āI knew better about this person than they knew about themself therefore I refuse to acknowledge how they identifiedā.Ā
Keep in mind the girl made several posts saying she was ace DAYS before her murder, was never deleted either. OP is fucking lying. OP claims she secretly contacted OP and only OP just before her murder to say it was a phase / she made it up / she changed her mind / etc. HOW does that not sound suspect to you? Oh right, because youāre an exclus and you want ANY reason to shit on ace people.Ā
edit: And apparently OP told you a different story too! So far Iāve seen OP say she was joking, she made it up, she meant she had a phase, she WAS having a phase, and that she changed her mind right after she said it. Again HOW DOES THAT NOT SOUND SUSPICIOUS?? ffs
2b, Also the whole āwell even if she was ace we shouldnāt even associate her with her identityā thing is pretty fucking typical of transphobes, homophobes, queerphobes, etc because they donāt want us to exist.Ā āWhy do you have to bring up the queer card she died you know!ā is a fucking Bad Take regardless which LGBT+ identity weāre talking about.Ā
Like what if she was a lesbian? What if she was trans? You know axes of oppression can intersect and thatās why LGBT+ women get harder hit than men on a general basis right??
3. Iām queer and trans and I fuck, you stupid wretch. Stripping me of my identity to win discourse points is what anti-LGBT+ people do. Like OP. Like @x--x. Exclusies gonna be exclusies I Fucking Guess. Go fuck yourself.Ā
See above point 2a. Thatās our proof OPās lying. Is your guysā proof just going to beĀ āI followed her sometimesā like OP?
And actually, her identity matters. See above point 2b. It fucking matters just like it would have if she was a lesbian, etc. A THING CAN BE MISOGYNISTIC AND APHOBIC AT THE SAME TIME. Or are you one of those exclusies who think aphobia isĀ ājust misogynyā as if that wouldnāt be telling on yourselves (ie, that youāre misogynists when you mock aspec peopleās experiences)?
Nobody used it for discourse. No, what happened was people spammed the ace tags with her fucking body, threats of violence, mockery, etc. Ace people also started talking about facing similar violence and their own stories of survival. YOU guys turned the second thing intoĀ ādiscourseā when ace people tried to mourn one of their own and tried to talk about how this shit affects them, while thoroughly fucking ignoring the first thing happening.
You canāt accuse us of āusing her death for discourseā right after āeven if she was lyingā and defending OP as if that wouldnāt be using her death for discourse!?
Regardless, fuck you as well. I know you both donāt ACTUALLY give a shit on this so hereās your wallet photo back.