#crapfest

Late Night Tchotchkes - Part III

Man, if this isn’t an accurate depiction of where I’m at with dumb shit in my life … 🤣

@mirainikki​ 

1. Being ace isn’t “not wanting to fuck” it’s not feeling sexual attraction and yes in fact acephobia exists.

2a. I didn’t compare oppressions, oppressions can’t be compared. Doesn’t matter if it’s acephobia v transphobia, or lesbophobia v transphobia, or racism v transphobia. Not how that shit works. Didn’t mention any single fucking thing like it. 

I said OP was like transphobic parents in trying to pull the “I knew better about this person than they knew about themself therefore I refuse to acknowledge how they identified”. 

Keep in mind the girl made several posts saying she was ace DAYS before her murder, was never deleted either. OP is fucking lying. OP claims she secretly contacted OP and only OP just before her murder to say it was a phase / she made it up / she changed her mind / etc. HOW does that not sound suspect to you? Oh right, because you’re an exclus and you want ANY reason to shit on ace people. 

edit: And apparently OP told you a different story too! So far I’ve seen OP say she was joking, she made it up, she meant she had a phase, she WAS having a phase, and that she changed her mind right after she said it. Again HOW DOES THAT NOT SOUND SUSPICIOUS?? ffs

2b, Also the whole “well even if she was ace we shouldn’t even associate her with her identity” thing is pretty fucking typical of transphobes, homophobes, queerphobes, etc because they don’t want us to exist. “Why do you have to bring up the queer card she died you know!” is a fucking Bad Take regardless which LGBT+ identity we’re talking about. 

Like what if she was a lesbian? What if she was trans? You know axes of oppression can intersect and that’s why LGBT+ women get harder hit than men on a general basis right??

3. I’m queer and trans and I fuck, you stupid wretch. Stripping me of my identity to win discourse points is what anti-LGBT+ people do. Like OP. Like @x--x. Exclusies gonna be exclusies I Fucking Guess. Go fuck yourself. 

@mochiflour​

See above point 2a. That’s our proof OP’s lying. Is your guys’ proof just going to be “I followed her sometimes” like OP?

And actually, her identity matters. See above point 2b. It fucking matters just like it would have if she was a lesbian, etc. A THING CAN BE MISOGYNISTIC AND APHOBIC AT THE SAME TIME. Or are you one of those exclusies who think aphobia is “just misogyny” as if that wouldn’t be telling on yourselves (ie, that you’re misogynists when you mock aspec people’s experiences)?

Nobody used it for discourse. No, what happened was people spammed the ace tags with her fucking body, threats of violence, mockery, etc. Ace people also started talking about facing similar violence and their own stories of survival. YOU guys turned the second thing into “discourse” when ace people tried to mourn one of their own and tried to talk about how this shit affects them, while thoroughly fucking ignoring the first thing happening.

You can’t accuse us of “using her death for discourse” right after “even if she was lying” and defending OP as if that wouldn’t be using her death for discourse!?

Regardless, fuck you as well. I know you both don’t ACTUALLY give a shit on this so here’s your wallet photo back.

“about shit that doesn’t affect you”

yeah child abuse never affected me of course, I totally made up the part about “this specific phrase and excuse has been used to ignore abuse I’ve gone through here are examples of my parents doing this and where my personal stake in this conversation comes in”

but you can pretend someone throwing their coffee at me and spitting on my coworker because we told them they couldn’t park in the fire lane is ever acceptable under any circumstances

Dude you need therapy or something. You completely misread or misinterpret what people say and instead of trying to understand you get super butthurt and start TYPING IN CAPS LIKE ANYONE GIVES A FUCK ANNOYING ISNT IT?? Like everyone gets it honey you’ve got a stick up your ass and it’s sideways, every gets what you’re saying but babe YOU are the problem. YOU are the one not understanding. YOU are the one. Find another way to let out your aged than screaming at ppl who didn’t do shit.

idk anon seems like nobody understands what I’m saying at all considering y’all send me this shit and keep trying to antagonize me

also telling someone to get therapy is ableist and that plus all the “stop being angry about your abuse” shit is gaslighting tone policing

but y’all keep being fake woke

They’re literally just saying they don’t know enough to have a comfortable opinion/debate about it, jfc. What are you trying to accomplish? Just block her and leave because she’s stated she knew she doesn’t feel comfortable with it. Less stress on you and y'all can go about ya day.

I was going to let it end up until I started getting mocked and called shit. 

I’m sorry you all think it’s abusive harassment for someone to respond when they’re being mocked and called shit.

It didn’t have 25k names or anywhere close to that, but it was still incredibly long and was still fucking up people’s browsers. And that is evidence enough that it’s an unsustainable effort to try and list every. single. exclusionist. on this site.

Someone replied something along the lines of, "how is this helpful when it’s this huge?” and, it really is true. There was a suggestion for a quick-block list for the batch block extension, but, well, idk about anyone else but trying to add more than like 20 names at a time always fucked it up for me. I’m pretty sure trying to do the whole list would ALSO crash the browser and be impossible to use.

I’m sorry to people who like these lists so they can limit interaction, but it’s simply not possible for me to continue them. They’re still available on archive.is but they won’t be updated... which also means, to the people who were mistaken as aphobes and wanted removed, you can’t technically be removed. Sorry.

And to be honest, this blog was never intended to get so much attention, or have original posts - it was mostly to be a log of receipts, articles, references, petitions, etc... Like, I make cryptic original tags so that I can stay OUT of actual tags, so I can limit interaction with the greater population, etc.

So I give up. That’s really what it is, I’m giving up. This isn’t my duty and I don’t have to be bound to it. I’m going to feel bad, sure, but it’s just not realistic. And there are numerous blogs dedicated to this kind of thing either way? I don’t have to be one of them.