#cpuromram

I used to be part of the RP community here about 4/5 years back and it started out great, but then got really bad. Everybody started to hate on each other because of headcanons. I figured 4/5 years was enough for a new wave of RPers which is why I'm back again.

@thegearsofzababa

Oh boy...Let's just say that with one drama, the whole community was scattered. They started to dislike eachother, to the point of leaving the fandom.

That honestly sounds like a pain in the ass...the kind of stupid reasons people shouldn’t be fighting over, really...people need to chill sometimes.

Specially if it’s drama around headcanons. When I find someone with a headcanon I don’t agree with/don’t like, I just continue with my own thing and (?), that’s it. You do, you.

@acrossworlds

well my experience with the rp community was alright. The peeps I got to interact were chill for the most part

There’s usually a bit of everything in every fandom, so I’m glad you actually got along with people in this case.

I used to be in the PMMM community some years ago and while people said it had some drama, I never got to find myself with it so...I guess it also depends who you rp with.

@unhingedsea

Unlike the my fandom LOL

You need to learn to be like me, Ellen. A wanderer of fandoms. I end up staying focused on the ones that have more activity so my brain doesn’t eat itself with anxiety.

I’ve been in dead fandoms before and it was just useless to waste time if there wasn’t much activity, after all, it wasn’t my fault as a rper, more like, there were simply not enough people to pull good stuff with.

I’m saying this because I know you push yourself over these kind of things a lot but, sometimes there’s not much we can do if there aren’t more people to help with it, it’s not your fault.