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like idk how to feel rn. bc if it doesn't happen i will like just go crazy and be depressed for forever.

so are they're saving the engagement for the last ep? like the very last moments.

BABY! *_____* 

cornelia-b replied to your post: What if Blair chooses Dan on Gossip Girl and Elena...

No, Blair won’t choose Dan. Don’t worry your little heart ;)

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yes i understand. i just watched the scene for that purpose

i understand where you're coming from, but let's get one thing straight here. Yes, exactly, it was not something like 'agreeing to be part of the deal'. Because that was the entire problem, remember? Blair not agreeing to be part of the deal. She never agreed to be part of any deal. so in fact, she was 'being traded'. at face value that's what the issue is. It wasn't that she agreed to be traded. She never agreed to be traded. So she shouldn't be accountable for 'being traded'.  But she can state it for the fact that it is because it did happen to her. what she should be accountable for  is her willingness to be traded.

She WOULD have agreed to be traded, that's the problem. that's what i think she's dealing with right now. Not the fact she was traded but the fact that she would have agreed to be traded. So that's her own accountability. When she stated that she was traded, there is no fault with that statement. It's completely true that it happened.

I think you have to take her speech as a whole because what was most important is that she admitted that she lost herself in between. She, Blair Waldorf, lost herself along the way. To me, she was stating certain facts but she wasn't accusing anyone of anything. I think mostly she was holding herself accountable for allowing these things to happen to her. At the end of the day, it's clear Blair is aware she's the one who compromised herself. I think this was deeper than Chuck or Louis. She's dealing with feelings she has about herself, not about them. She recognizes that Blair Waldorf is lost, not that Chuck or Louis took Blair Waldorf from her. She said she lost herself. It is her who committed the action of losing herself. think about subject, verb, object, in that statement. Her self is her possession that she lost. This is ultimately about her. And i think it's possible that all this time she hasn't forgiven herself for what she was willing to become. She betrayed herself with the IP and she also betrayed herself with chasing the tiara. I think it's a very good thing that she has clarity about these things now and wants to deal with them

I don't agree that Dan can help her find herself. I think this is something serious that she needs to deal with on her own.