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People will go to any limit to avoid getting tested for STDs. Someone recently wrote to us saying that checking a one month old STD test can’t guarantee that he/she doesn’t have STD today and no one will get blood test every time before sex isn’t it? So what is the point?

Very true. No one gets tested before each sex session and a month old test report is no guarantee that the person won’t have STD. True. But please understand that tests are NOT to check your infection status on that particular day or date! It is to check your history, check if you have been following safe sex practices in the past. Getting tested shows that the person’s sex life till that point in time has been safe and whatever they have been doing till now has been safe. The results are a reflection of his past sexual explorations. It is all about probability and statistics. A clean result increases the probability that his future state will be status quo unless the person has a dramatic shift in his lifestyle. Negative test results means:

1. The person has been cautious in the past and will most probably remain cautious going ahead too.

2. The person is conscious of the dangers of STDs and has gone through the stress of waiting for test results and people usually don’t do silly things after that experience.

3. Awareness level of the person/couple around safe sex is high.

The only 100% guarantee of not getting an STD is to abstain from sex completely. That is obviously not the right path unless you’re becoming a monk or a nun. The best we can do is to take precautions. We have similar number of road deaths in a year compared to STD. We don’t stop driving. We take precautions - wear seat belts and drive slow and don’t drive when high! Similarly, we won’t give up sex and swinging but we want to add precautions - Always wear condoms and get tested at least twice a year for STDs to make sure that our lifestyle choices have been safe! Make sure you ask for ecent reports from all new lovers!

Remember that deadly STDs like Herpes, Syphilis, HPV can’t be stopped by condoms. They spread from intimate skin to skin contact also eg. Oral sex

Are you willing to bet your and your lover’s life on your next swinging session? You already did! Get Tested today!

Join the growing group of STD tested swingers and continue having fun!

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How confident are you that the couple you met and had sex with a few weeks ago weren’t infected with Herpes and hid it from you? Would you be willing to bet your life on it? Well... you actually did! Yes, you already bet your life on it! Oh we used condoms! Naaah! Condoms can’t protect you from Herpes! Sorry!

Don’t become the next couple they’ve given Herpes to! Protect yourself! Many people hide it because telling would obviously mean they don’t get to swing with the new friends! So majority of people hide it! Some hide it because they justify it in their minds that it is not life threatening so no need to tell! Herpes is not life threatening but it is INCURABLE and spreads from oral sex and skin to skin contact. Condoms can not protect you but so many people with Herpes never tell others because they either feel that if they have it and are fucked then others should get it too or they feel that now they already have it so why shouldn’t they continue to enjoy whatever little they can at the cost of other people! Note that most of the time Herpes has no visible signs till there are eruptions.

When we ask people to get tested and show reports below are the ridiculous excuses we have heard back:

1. I am too scared of giving blood. So I can’t get tested! Huh!?? So we should risk our lives because you are scared to give blood?

2. I am too scared of the results so I can’t do the test!? Huh!!?! Meaning you are scared of what disease you might have but we shouldn’t be scared and have sex with you without seeing your tests result??

3. I don’t have time! Hello!?! They come home and take blood. It takes 2-3 minutes. You don’t have that much time to protect your life and our life then you’re not worth it!

4. What if I am positive??? Well... then you see a doctor and get treatment and definitely not join a swingers group!

5. Will you tell others if I come out positive? Huh!?? Hello! You should be telling others yourself and doing the right thing! You’re basically saying you’re going to hide it and continue having sex with people??

And that’s the thing friends!! There are millions of such people already. People who are aware that they are positive with some STD and simply hide it and pretend to be disease free and join swinging groups and meet couples and join swinging parties spreading their ‘love’ (STD) to other couples! Don’t get fooled by such people! Always insist on STD tests and reports. Are you seriously going to risk your life for such people?

Read this article about how people spread STD deliberately:

http://urbanette.com/deliberate-stds/

Internet is the most awesome health education tool. Spreading awareness can slow down the spread of STD dramatically. Please see this wonderful video explaining how we can all help in reducing the spread of STDs in India.

Join the movement for safe swinging! Always ask for STD blood reports before the next big Swingers Party and always use condoms as double protection!

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It is very unfortunate that Indian swinging scene is now filled with couples who are pimping their wives to single men for money. This is the same as prostitution and comes with exactly the same risks of STDs as the high risk group of sex workers. The incidents of STDs is highest in sex workers and because of Paid Couples the same has now entered mainstream swinging on India. Apart from the moral degradation of Indian husbands encouraging their wives to be sex workers and making money, they are openly and freely risking their wives to STD diseases. They convince their wives that condoms are safe and will protect them but never tell them that there are deadly STDs like HPV, Herpes, Syphilis etc which are spread from skin to skin contact and oral sex. Condoms can’t save them and they still endanger their wives to these incurable diseases for a bit of money and kinks. Shameful.

Not only are paid couples putting themselves in extreme danger of diseases, they are also putting every other swinger at risk if they meet other couples and don’t reveal that they are Paid Couple with singles. This puts the entire community at risk. Extreme risk!

Please avoid Paid Couples and the only way to be safe is to get tested and insist on testing of any couple you meet! Condoms can’t save from everything. Get tested and insist on test reports from other too! And then enjoy your swinging session!

The guys or couples who are most likely to have an STD are the ones who reply one of the following when you ask them about STD tests:

1. Don’t worry, I am very safe!

2. I am very clean, I always have safe sex

3. I have STD tests very regularly (but they don’t show the latest report)

4. I always use condoms so how can I have STD?

5. You don’t trust me?

6. Come on! Look me! I am so fit and healthy and I go to gym also regularly. I have no diseases.

7. I have only had sex with 2-3 people and they were all very clean.

8. I have only had sex with my husband / wife so I don’t need to do these tests

9. I am in the army, navy, etc or I am a pilot and we undergo tests regularly so no need to do more. (Where are the reports?)

10. I am telling you I am safe! Trust me! Why do you want to waste money?

11. We are husband and wife. Why should we do STD test?

These are all words of people who are subconsciously scared that they might have an STD and don’t want to know! A gentleman and a lady will confidently say that they are willing to undergo a blood tests anytime. In fact, they would be glad to hear that you are aware and are just as cautious as them!

Please read how above responses should be interpreted:

1. STDs like Herpes and Syphilis and HPV spread from skin to skin contact and oral sex. Condoms can’t protect you! Some of these are incurable!

2. Many STDs remain dormant inside body for months and years so no symptoms would show but person can give you the STD. Physical appearance of a person is no proof that they don’t have an STD.

3. If anyone claims to be tested regularly, ask them to show their report. If they don’t show or ignore it, you should be worried!

4. Don’t be fooled. Trust is a give and take. If someone wants to be trusted, they will show you their report on their own.

5. STD tests are not expensive and take hardly 5 minutes to give blood at any lab. You don’t even need to give your real name or identity. Use your FB identity.

6. Even if a person has had sex with very limited people, they can get STD. It takes one contact to spread the virus.

7. Even if a person is having sex with their spouse only, they can still get STD, as no one knows who their spouse has had sex with, now or before.

8. Army, Navy, or any pilots - they have medical tests but not all STDs. Most stop at HIV. What about Herpes, Syphilis etc? Ask to see reports and they will never show you because they have no reports.

9. Husband and wife is not a kavach from STD! Virus doesn’t know you are married! If you have met any couple before or if any of you had sex with anyone else even once, you should get tested!

Join the movement for safe swinging! Always ask for STD blood reports before the next big Swingers Party and always use condoms as double protection! There is no shame and it’s not about trust. It’s about your life! Don’t get fooled!

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