#conditioning?

Say you have a whumper that had a bad habit of doing something like biting their nails or popping their gum, etc. And they task their whumpee with counting how many time a day they end up doing the habit.

Okay so now to the part we are all here for.

Yes, of *course* I want to watch as my words melt away his thoughts and leave him a dumb, helpless, malleable slut for me, but there's something... more that could be done.

I want to train his body to betray his will at a mere gesture. I want to be able to use one finger movement to bring him to his knees. Another, perhaps, for a phantom sensation of tightness to take hold around his throat. I already know it doesn't take much from me to get his cock hard and leaking against his boxers, but if I could simulate the feeling of my soft hands caressing his balls with no contact? Perfection. He'd be even more powerless than he already is.

I’m kind of stuck in that spiral where the only thing I really but efforts into are commissions, but I would need to do a lot more to fill my blog and get my name out there, which I don’t because I don’t have enough stuff to show. Vicious circle kind of thing.