#commanderfenyor

That's me:

You can call me Alexandra or Friedrich/Fritz (I like both the full and the nickname version)! You can use any pronouns for me, offline most people use she/her, but I'm fine with others too and I'd actually be happy to try out they/them or he/him as well.

I'm an adult, even though I sometimes still can't quite believe that yet (experiencing a pandemic during your adolescence surely fucks with your perception of time). I have my age in my header since I'd probably forget to update it here.

I speak German and English fluently! I also know a little Spanish and Russian from school but unfortunately I remember much less than I would like to😅 I'd love to learn more languages properly though, some that I'm particularly interested in are Finnish, Polish, Czech, Scottish Gaelic and Welsh :)

Currently (I made this addition in November 2025) I'm in a bit of an involuntary semi-hiatus as I'm in the last year of my master's degree and my classes and upcoming thesis take up a lot of my time. I wish to be more active again, but whenever you don't hear from me for a while, that's probably the reason.

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My blog:

I originally made this blog to post my art, however over time it turned a bit more into a selfship blog. It's still also my main blog though, so I kind of use it for everything. Nowadays I post/reblog mostly selfship art and imagines/writing, but also "regular" stuff from fandoms that I like, and occasionally just some random memes, things I find cute or funny or rarely a bit of history related stuff, since I love researching about it in my free time.

Some fandoms I'm in (more or less, I'm usually not super active in the sense that I engage a lot with other people - I'm sometimes kinda shy to approach/interact with new people - , but I enjoy these franchises): Star Wars, Pirates of the Caribbean, Kingdom Come: Deliverance, Hogan's Heroes, 'Allo 'allo!, Das Boot (1981), Phineas and Ferb, The Penguins of Madagascar, Warrior Cats, and probably some more that I'm currently forgetting about xD Feel free to ask about them!

I selfship mainly for fun and for comfort, to me it's a kind of selfcare/selflove. I generally feel comfortable with sharing f/os, especially the ones that I'm not very focused at right now. However, I might not interact much with someone who has headcanons about them that heavily contradict with mine or just makes me somehow uncomfortable (you can still follow me though, I probably just won't follow back or initiate interactions). Otherwise feel free to interact so we can gush about them together^^

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Tags I use to keep my blog organised (or at least attempt to):

#fenyor's art - my own art

#fenyor's writing - my own writing, will probably be mostly x reader stories, headcanons or f/o imagines

#fenyor's post and #fenyor talks - any other form of original post that doesn't fit into the categories above (memes, character screenshots, just me rambling about something etc.), basically anything that's not a reblog

#others' creations - art or writing made by other people

#asks for fenyor - as the name says, any asks that I get

In theory I also have tags for my main f/os (mentioned in the f/o section), however I'm really not sure yet if I'm going to use them consistently or just stick to the character's names.

I only started implementing some sort of tagging system in February 2023, so most things before that (except my art) are unfortunately not tagged systematically!

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Self shipping:

I have made a small website for any information related to my self ships! This includes an overview of my fictional others, a short description of my main self-inserts, as well as an introduction to their relationships. It's a continuous work in progress, but I feel like it gives a decent overview since I didn't want this post to become to cluttered.

My self-inserts are often called Selina (or variations thereof, like Selena), and I have different versions of her for different universes. I've been meaning to branch out more as well though, and use my self-inserts as a way to explore different aspects of my own self, however I haven't publicly shared much of them yet. I generally don't mind if you use my SIs' names for me too :)

"Disclaimer": My taste in fictional characters doesn't reflect my taste in real-life people (especially in regards to their age, since most of them are a lot older than me), also many of them are villains/have done questionable things and I wouldn't support their actions in real life. Since they're fictional they're allowed to be a little horrible though <3

Main f/os:

Dr. Heinz Doofenshmirtz (2nd Dimension) [Phineas and Ferb] | Tag: f/o: 🚂

Hector Barbossa [Pirates of the Caribbean] | Tag: f/o: 🏴‍☠️

Davy Jones [Pirates of the Caribbean] | Tag: f/o: 🐙

Yogar Lyste [Star Wars] | tag: f/o: 🐶

Other f/os I'm currently focused on:

Firmus Piett [Star Wars]

Maximilian Veers [Star Wars]

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DNI:

This should go without saying, but obviously anyone falling under categories like racists, neonazis, religious extremists, LGBTQ-phobes, pedo-/zoophiles and similar beliefs. Basically just don't be an asshole or be unnecessarily hateful/harmful towards people who just want to exist in peace. Personally I also prefer not to interact with adult selfshippers who ship romantically or sexually with characters that are children, or people who glorify/romanticise topics like pedophilia, incest, or abuse (that doesn't mean you can't include those topics in your stories at all, but if it's done in a way that makes me uncomfortable I won't engage with it).

Relating to the last sentence, I know some use the term "pro-ship" for these people, personally I lowkey hate the term though by now because 1. from my experience people are so subjective with what the actual definition is and I feel like the meaning keeps getting twisted around to everyone's personal preferences that it's actually kind of a useless label by now (I've come across accounts who use the term pro-ship for themselves despite not even shipping anything problematic, and vice versa), and 2. at this point it just feels like such a stupid typical "chronically online" thing to me. I know the term is commonly used so I mention it here, still I'd prefer if pedos etc. were just called what they are💀 I don't think they deserve a more downplaying or harmless term to be honest.

Also my blog is not a place for harassment towards me or anyone else!

Other than that I don't really have any specific criteria, but if you're hateful against selfshipping or shame people for having "cringe" interests, this might not be a place for you either.

All in all, as long as you're a decent person you're welcome to stay, I'm really just here to have fun and talk about my favourite characters :)

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Additional info:

Most of the stuff I post/reblog is suitable for general audiences, and I generally don't mind people of any age following me (unless maybe you're under the age of 13, but then you shouldn't be on Tumblr anyway).

However I won't completely exclude posting/reblogging adult content, but I will try my best to tag it appropriately with tags like "nsfw", "nsft", "explicit", or "suggestive". If you don't want to see these things, I suggest blacklisting these tags, especially if you're a minor. For my own posts, I will also always put a "read more" link and a warning before the actual content, so it isn't right in your face and you can decide on your own if you want to look at it or not. [By now I do have a dedicated side blog for adult self ship content as well. I'm a little secretive about it, but I tend to share the @ every once in a while.]

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My other social media:

Instagram (most active) | Artfol | Bluesky | Cara | DeviantArt | Twitter

I'm not really active on any of these though besides Instagram. Once I'm drawing more often again I might also share it on Artfol, Bsky and/or Cara, probably not going to return to DA or Twitter though due to the infestation with AI on these sites. I'll probably keep my accounts there but not going to be actively using them.