its so weird how i felt bi fit my sexuality better than pan for years but never told anyone bcs i felt like someone i used to be friends with would accuse me of copying her. i used to cringe whenever anyone called me pan to the point where i just told people i was queer...
i stopped being friends with this person about a year ago and some days i think back and i'm like why the fuck was i ever friends with them? they shit talked my other friends every other minute, was incapable of being happy for other people if they couldn't make it about them and was just a shit person overall.
speaking of friends, after we stopped speaking to this person my friends and i got so much closer to each other and its just so amazing to me.
this person even shit talked my mother after my mother would give me extra food to take to school for them, my mother was also nothing but nice and yet they turned around and shit talked her? (my mother even warned me about her years ago) every day that i'm not friends with them i'm so happy and my mental health has been honestly great.
