Hello! I hope you’re having an incredible day! Your posts are so beautiful and have taught me so much! I know this sound really silly, but I’ve felt really insecure because I have sun combust venus. I’ve felt so awful because I feel like since I have this I’m not attractive. Is there any hope with having this placement? Sorry if this sounds really dumb, I apologize!
hello!! how are you? i hope you're fine and having an incredible day too. ✨💖
firstly, don't feel silly for sharing this, it's okay to talk about your insecurities, in fact it's important to do so. so don't worry, it didn't sound ugly or stupid ^ ^
about your question, of course there is hope!
Combust Venus...
...represents the importance of self-love, of developing a healthier view of what it is to love and be loved, and a more harmonious view of yourself. how to do this? considering that Combust Venus affects the area of relationships and exchanges, as well as the feeling of beauty and of being attractive or not, what i suggest is to start the cure of this by looking less at the outside world, and more at the inside. have you ever thought about healing from the inside? i know it may not be easy. try to spend time alone; seek ways to connect more with yourself, and less with some external expectation. it is extremely possible to change some major parts that affect you, even because the natal chart is nothing more than a reflection of who we are. if we want to change something, even if it requires time and effort, it is fully possible to work on that change!
tips for dealing with Combust Venus:
work on your individuality/essence
(Sun) so that Venusian matters flow in another way. reflect on: what parts of you (Sun) might be hidden because you chose to please others? do you tend to neglect your inner healthiest needs? do you seek relationships at all costs and forget to develop yourself? Is your vision of beauty mainly based on beauty standards?;
work on the evolution of some points involving your Sun - sign and house, so that you achieve an improvement in the way you deal with your self-esteem and self-worth; love life; money; relationships and how you deal with your own earthly pleasures.
pay attention to low self-esteem behavior trends (neglecting your needs, letting people who hurt you continue in your life, for not seeing your worth). if you have difficulties with certain self-esteem issues, a person who doesn't help you won't do you any good. it will only get worse. low self-esteem directly affects our way of relating, as it has a lot to do with what we believe we deserve in terms of love, help, support, appreciation.
i suggest reading this.
hope it was helpful! ^^
