Cohadris Attraction; Expanded
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This is the third installment of expanding on attraction types we've coined. For this installment, we'll be talking about Cohadris Attraction, which was coined here (link).
This post will answer the same 4 questions, those being;
What does Cohadris Attraction feel like?
What does a Cohadris Relationship look like?
Who might use or find Cohadris Attraction helpful?
What attraction types are similar or adjacent too Cohadris Attraction?
Same as the first installment, this is not an exhaustive or exclusive list of what Cohadris Attraction feels and looks like, it’s just a list of possible feelings and relationship structures, and a way to explain Cohadris Attraction further than originally defined.
Anyways, onto the examples.
What does Cohadris Attraction feel like?
(pt: What does Cohadris Attraction feel like? /end pt)
Generally speaking, Cohadris Attraction feels like familiarity towards a consistent presence in one's life, one oneself feels inseparable from given the long-lasting presence. Further examples are:
Finding something/someone's presence familiar and therefore comforting, grounding, relaxing, etc.
Looking forward to seeing something/someone everyday, as they are a stable and consistent part of one's life.
"Clicking" with something/someone in an important, deep, or special way, feeling compatible with them as if perfect puzzle pieces.
Understanding something/someone deeply, knowing them the best and them the same for you, as if being different sides of the same coin.
Existing harmoniously with something/someone, navigating life with them as a team.
What does a Cohadris Relationship look like?
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Partner A calling, talking, or texting Partner B first thing in the morning to show they're still there.
Partner A seeking out Partner B and Partner C first thing when they get home from work.
Partner A existing in the same space as Partner B for no "real" reason.
Partner A, Partner B, and Partner C being practically in sync when it comes to plans for their future.
Cohadris Relationships can be as impersonal or personal as those in the relationship decide.
Who might use or find Cohadris Attraction helpful?
(PT: Who might use or find Cohadris Attraction helpful? /End PT)
Those on the Anattractional (link) Spectrum, particularly those on the Acommunity (link) Spectrum, Afamilial Spectrum, and Aplatonic Spectrum.
Those with mental conditions that affect one's navigation or formation of relationships*, such as those with Autism, Anxiety/Social Disorders, Depression, Depersonalization-Derealization Disorder, Personality Disorders, Schizophrenia, etc.
Those who have experienced or fear abandonment or loneliness, and have increased attachments to those in one’s life.
Those who have been ostracized or rejected by society, and have a high appreciation (or preferred word) to those in one’s life who haven't rejected them.
*Relationship in this case refers to individuals one has (consistently) repeated/multiple interactions with.
What attraction types are similar or adjacent too Cohadris Attraction?
(pt: What attraction types are similar or adjacent too Cohadris Attraction? /end pt)
Communal/Pack (link); Similar in its mentions of consistent (group) meet ups.
Drift (link); Similar in its mentions of compatibility and adjacent in its mentions of being fully connected as one being.
Foraborine (link); Similar in its mentions of harmony.
As mentioned in our first installment, we are still very open to suggestions, such as things to change or explain further, as well as other topics we should include in these discussions.
tagging @radiomogai for archival.
