#chocolte

So I was in the pantry having some old Easter chocolate bunny that I never finished and I looked on the box and it said solid chocolate to clarify that it isn’t hollow and I thought that the fact that they advertised it like it’s a great thing is weird. Like to me isn’t that’s what I should expect? But at the same time if I got a chocolate bunny that was hollow I would be disappointed but I’d shrug because it’s on me for not paying attention although it’s not advertised that it’s hollow and then it hit me that’s we treat men. Like if a man is shitty well that sucks they all can’t be solid chocolate I guess it’s not like he said he said he was a good guy but if a man is decent we’ll advertise it saying how he deserves applause because he’s a great guy, because he thinks of u as an equal and doesn’t say the n-word even in a song. And yes of course that’s a good thing! But that’s the BASE LINE NOT REVOLUTIONARY. That’s not a great guy that’s just a guy who isn’t an asshole. Our standards should be higher because then we’ll be complacent. We should reserve our “omg he’s such a great guy!” “What a saint” “husband material!!!” Posts for people who do more. People who practice what they preach who call our others, donate, march, vote for officials that will change things. People who make an effort even when it doesn’t benefit them or when doing so actually makes their lives harder THATS what makes a person great. We can’t be happy with just the fact that the chocolate is solid it has to made of good stuff too.

chocolate Pumpkin cake