TYPES OF CHECK-IN THAT ARE APPARENTLY CONSIDERED WEIRD THAT I ALWAYS ACCEPT
"I had been doing X because I had gathered you felt very strongly about Y.
I am seeing indications that Y is no longer very important to you/that you now feel significantly different about Y.
I am unclear about how you feel about Y / I am unclear about whether changes in my doing X are now warranted.
When you have the spoons, I would really appreciate some clarification/additional information."














