#cath-cc

I'm looking at you Joc, Cath, Moe, Jocelyn, Crownhill, Equiliberty... whatever you want to call yourself.

There has been... quite a bit of drama going on in the sims 4 equestrian community for the past... couple of weeks now. A month? I honestly have no idea at this point - seems like it has all blurred together with all the bullshit. A lot of tension, a lot of hurt, a lot of ignorance etc.... I have a lot to say, more than I can probably put into words, but here we are... I joined the Equiliberty discord community about a month or two ago because I wanted a place to chat, share photos, get into the HARPG aspect of Sims 4 since horses dropped. I was excited. I met incredible people, and really started to get into things... then the bullshit started. I was honestly shocked when Equiliberty brought up a discussion for the discord and saw what was going on in there. I had ignored it until then, was completely oblivious as I usually am until a friend pointed it out to me. I was floored. Long story short, the admin of Equiliberty - the owner - Jocelyn (who goes by a few other names as well) had stirred up drama after an argument about the usage of AI art. Many, many people were against it. Note that this is where it STARTED but is not what this is all about. Suffice it to say, but it escalated from there - things got heated, drama rose, and Joc didn't help at all. She and the other admins, refused to own up to shit and Joc started calling people names, transphobia (Not Transmaphobia jocelyn, jfc) was brought up and the environment just became unsafe. It continued to escalated. Jocelyn refused to apologize, to take responsibility, continuously said admins werent responsible for the way their server was run (wtf???) and just... god it's exhausting recounting all of it. What is all boils down to in the end is that Equiliberty is an unsafe server for anyone of LGBTQ+ community and their friends, Jocelyn is a gaslighter, liar, transphobic, irresponsible and generally unchecked from reality. I refuse to sugar coat it any longer. Roast me if you'd like, I really could care less. She continues to dig her own grave and place herself as the victim - she is not. Yes, there was a bit of cyber-bullying towards her - this I will freely admit to - and yet doesn't it go both ways? The question at this point isn't whether there was or if it was deserved but when will it stop? It probably won't. She keeps climbing the ladder faster and faster to repaint her image and it just isn't working. I admit freely that I have a lot of feelings about all of this. She called my good, precious plant-loving bean an IT - she refused any responsibility for her part - she gave a half assed apology for her words. And I am completely done with not pointing fingers or calling her out by name. So here it is, my partial rant because honestly? There is so much more and I can go on and on and on....it won't end if I don't stop here. But if you would like to know the biggest and most recent hole she has dug - see here.