#cat's rambles

been thinking about how feedism revolves around the feedee's wants and needs. feedees - as a general category - don't technically need a feeder. they can do the "feeding" part of feedism by themselves if they want to. feeders, however, rely on feedees in order to engage with their sexuality. feeders can't do feedism without someone to feed. because of this - because feedism revolves around the body of the feedee - it is ultimately the feedee who makes all the decisions. sure, they can go along with what their feeder tells them to do because it's hot, but they still have to make an active decision to do so. in a (not-abusive) feedist dynamic, the feedee decides what happens regardless of their status as a sub/dom. as a feeder, i'm just lucky to be allowed in. and as a subby feeder that's hot

sometimes Scary Mutual You Are Afraid Of is actually Awesome And Cool and you can only find out by actually talking to them ☝️

not now kitten daddy's telling his tumblr mutuals his full legal name and home adress

been considering turning evil lately