I saw this today and was immediately triggered. When a women cries out to you this is how you treat her?
There is a particular kind of violence that happens when a woman is betrayed by her partner and the world tells her she’s crazy for bleeding.
That kind of woman when she finds out he’s been unfaithful, emotionally, physically, digitally, however it shows up, and when she reacts from that wound, she’s called insecure…Jealous….Embarrassing? Meanwhile the other woman laughs. Mocks her. Tells her to leave if she doesn’t like it. And the internet cheers.
Fuck that.
Women who knowingly entertain someone else’s partner and then ridicule the partner who confronts them, you are not the prize you think you are. You are a participant in someone’s destruction. You are cosigning a man who lies to the face of someone who loves him and then performing superiority because he chose to lie to you too. That’s not power. That’s complicity.
And to the men who create this chaos and then sit back and watch women tear each other apart, we see you. You are not slick. You are not desirable. You are dangerous. You play both sides
You weaponize one woman’s pain against another and call yourself a good man. You’re not. You’re a coward who lets women bleed so you never have to be held accountable.
The ones you’re mocking, the ones you’re calling crazy, yeah that was me, they are not okay. They are depressed. They are anxious and all the self love they thought they have was zapped when the relationship failed.
That ls not on no one else but them but the reality of what betrayal trauma does to a person’s nervous system, their sense of self, and their will to be here….
So when you cheerleead a man who moves like that, when you mock the woman he’s destroying, and when you call her foolish for staying , you are participating in something that has real consequences. Life and death consequences.
And one day, what goes around will come back around. And when it does, you will understand the weight of what you treated as entertainment.
Protect women. Hold men accountable and vice versa when necessary. Stop performing for people who would watch you drown.
