#canthaveboth

I've got to do a bit of a rant today. If it gets to be too much, I apologize.

I work with a girl who says that she is bisexual. Awesome, I have no issue with this. Obviously, I am a lesbian. However, she (and people like her) is the reason that bisexuals get a bad reputation. She is living with a lesbian couple, one half of that couple is madly in love with her and they consider themselves 'together'. She is also dating a guy 30 minutes down the road. Whether or not they are ALL okay with this, I don't know. I don't really want to know.

When you're bisexual, it does NOT mean you can have both.That is why bisexuals get a name of being cheaters and people that want "the best of both worlds". No. that's not it.

I came out as bisexual because I believe the means you are capable of loving both men and women or are physically and/or emotionally attracted to either. Not that you want both, but you are able to love and be attracted to EITHER. Obviously, I prefer women and I now identify as a lesbian, but still it bothers me when I see this.

Not to mention she comes into work complaining about all her dram dealing with this situation. I'd like to shake her and say, "you did this to yourself, woman!"