#cala posts

It’s okay to have fantasies that you would never want to do in reality. It’s okay to have fantasies that you don’t want to do with other people. It’s okay to try things in real life and decide you only like them in fantasy. It’s okay to only like certain things in certain contexts. You don’t need to prove anything to anyone. You are not any less valid in your kinks if you enjoy the idea of them more than the reality.

Honestly situations where you want to fuck so bad but can’t yet are so fucking hot. When you’re making out and dry humping each other and you know you can’t go further, but their hand is down your pants and you never needed something so bad in your life. And their tongue is in your mouth and you’re so turned on it feels like it would take no time at all to get you off. I love being so deliriously horny that you would do anything to get to fuck them. I love being needy and desperate and down bad.

I’ve been thinking obsessively about being fucked doggy, where they’re shoving your head into the pillow and fucking into you. Or the kind where they wrap their hand around your throat and force you to arch back against them. Or the kind where they stop moving and telling you to fuck yourself back on their cock so they can see how desperate you are. Or the kind where they’ve lost all semblance of control and are holding onto your hips and fucking into you so hard you want to cry. Did I mention doggy is my favourite?

Anal is hot not only because it feels good, but also just as a concept. The fact that your ass is not meant to be fucked, that you have to work up to being able to take cock like that. The fact that it hurts a little. The fact that you have another perfectly good hole that needs no prep, but this is where your dom chooses to fuck you. That your body literally has to submit to them against its natural instincts for you to be fucked like that. God it is so fucking hot to think about being taken like that.

You should hold your sub’s head down on your cock. I promise, they love it. They love having your cock down their throat. The longer you hold them down there, the better! Don’t worry about them hitting and pushing against your legs, that’s just encouragement! And don’t worry about the tears, they’re just so happy to be serving you! They like it down there, I guarantee it. They’ll be sooooo happy when you let them breathe. Make sure they say thank you, and then do it all over again!

There’s really nothing like being manhandled to remind you how helpless you really are. Being pinned down, being shoved against the wall, having their hand around your throat, being bent in half when you’re being fucked. It’s all play, of course. And thank god it’s play, right? Because you really wouldn’t get away if someone was doing this to you. You really would be helpless under them. You would just have to take it and cry and whimper until they were done fucking you. Until they had satisfied themselves enough with your body to let you go. You would be a helpless little sex toy that would take whatever they want, because you don’t have a choice. Really makes you think, huh?

It’s so hot when your dom is hurting you or overstimulating you and you’re begging them to stop and they ask what you’ll do for them if they stop and you offer every filthy, embarrassing thing you can think of and they laugh at you and tell you you’re going to do all of that for them anyways. And then they just keep going.